Archive for February, 2012

• “Valentine’s Day is a day when women want to feel special, wanted, loved, admired, and unique multiplied by a thousand times. While we all (women) understand that Valentine’s Day might be commercialized, we tremendously enjoy flowers, gifts, and attention because while men see it as waste of time and money, we see it as signs of love from our significant ones”. – Viktoria, www.BrokenHeart911.com owner
• ”Warning! Attention all men, the women will be on the prowl, so if you wanna stay out of trouble, you better listen now. Today is judgment day, Today is the most dangerous day of our lives VALENTINE”S DAY. Men today we will be judged all over the world ,men will be compared and judged, it doesn’t matter what you did tester day or last year, it’s what you do tonight is what you will be judge on, so my advice is be very careful, and be on your best game, tonight, make every move a calculated move, be more romantic then you ever have been, now men we can do this, just think its only 1 day, so aim going to leave you with this, be careful and may god be with you” – music mogul who is in love. He is under the pressure from this significant one.
• “Valentine is holiday created by flower, jewelry and gift companies”, - 16 going on 30 year old guy.
• “Happy Buy Chicks Stuff…er… Valentine’s Day! ” – super married Gemini who will be bringing his wife at least 2 gifts
• “Happy Valentine’s Day” – famous Hollywood celebrity trainer
• “I finally answered the question “How many times can I mispronounce Valentines Day, Valentimes Day before my friend snaps” 5 at 3 I saw the vein pop, at 4 she made her orgasm face.” – Stand up comedian
• ” To me valentines can be everyday & not only on the 14th day of February every year if you married the right person or have the right person in your life. I am so lucky to be in this situation. Not only do I have a GREAT wife but I also have a very beautiful, healthy and bright baby girl who brings so much love to my wife and I. What more can I ask for. Happy Valentine s day to my baby girl and my wife & to you all! “ –Dedicated father and husband
• “At my house every day is Valentine’s Day… and Halloween.”- Mother of two year old
• “Hope you have a sexy day ” female from tech industry
• Happy Valentines!  Love and celebrate yourself, your body and your strength, with a dance party tonight!! Join me for spin class tonight at 7:30 pm at Kinetic Cycling Brentwood!!!1st Class is free, so bring your loved one and celebrate together.” – The best spin teacher
• ’Love expects no reward. Love knows no fear. Love gives — does not demand. Love imputes no motive… to love is to share and serve. ~Sivananda
  Although our loved ones should be told our feelings on a consistent basis…let today be an excuse to share your thoughts and feelings that are not always expressed…” – The filmmaker
• Today’s Special….Fixing a Broken Heart!!! LOL – MD posted a picture of him performing procedure
• “Man it’s Valentines day wow,I hope everyone has something planned for that special someone.I find this day funny very funny because there is going to be some strange hookups going on, I’m not going to lie this is a very special day and don’t do the same stuff you did last year wow the person your with make that person happy cause no matter what that significant other is in your life for a reason,to all you single folk just do you happy V-day if you’re at Supperclub dinner ill see you there tonight peace.” – upcoming actor, R&B singer

If you have a broken heart, Valentine’s Day might seem like a cruel joke to you. If your break up is fresh and feelings are hurt, you just have to know several things and follow a few simple rules to survive this day.

What do you need to know?

• You are not the first and not the last person who has a broken heart. Each and every person who ever has a relationship will have a broken heart at least once.
• Valentine’s Day is not a real holiday. It’s not about love; it’s about companies making money.
• Spending Valentine’s Day without a significant one is not the end of the world.
• The longer you’ll stay in a negative and tragic mood, the longer you’ll attract more unfortunate events.
• You don’t have a loss; you are going through a lesson and the sooner you learn, the sooner you’ll have a chance to meet your Prince Charming.

What NOT to do on Valentine’s Day.  DO NOT:

• Text or call your ex under any circumstances.
• Drink alcohol – you need to be totally in control of your emotions.
• Go on a random date with “whoever” – it will make you feel much worse.
• Have a one night stand with either a total stranger or a supportive male friend who’s been helping you for a while.
• Spend this day with your best friend couple who is madly in love.
• Meet your single friends in any “romantic restaurant” where you might see lots of happy couples.
• Talk about your ex and how great of a time you guys had together.
• Think that you’re the unhappiest person in the whole Universe.
• Eat ice cream from the box thinking that your nice body does not matter anymore.

What you SHOULD do:

• Control your thoughts, so your ex won’t be popping up in your mind (if you need to learn more, read the Broken Heart 911 Program).
• Spend time with positive, happy people who really love you; people who would support you emotionally without tearing your soul apart with comments about your ex.
• Do something nice to yourself – buy yourself a gift or go to some interesting fitness class or spa.
• Start thinking about your future – what makes you happy, what you really want from this life, and how you think you can get there.
• Go to sleep early – tomorrow will be another day and you’ll be able to start it fresh.
• Watch a comedy or action movie – or anything that is positive and can take your thoughts away.
• Read a self help program that will help you avoid the same mistakes in the future.

If you are single on Valentine’s Day, it means different things to different people.  The definition of “being happily single” has never been cancelled. Being single, self sufficient, and happy is much better than being in a dysfunctional, broken, lonely relationship.

Of course, being in a perfect relationship with your Prince Charming who you are in love with and who is crazy about you is every woman’s ultimate dream, but…let’s be realistic here. Finding “the right one” is a gift that life gives us when the time is right and we are ready. If you are reading this now and trying to figure out how to kill time on Valentine’s Day (and especially in the evening), it just means that:

• It’s not your time yet. You are not ready (even though you think you are).
• You chose freedom over commitment and are paying the price. You chose to be in charge of your life, do what you want, and not do what you don’t want. Everything has a price and a lonely Valentine’s Day can be part of it. If you are completely lonely and sad, go online and join a dating site. You will find that there lot’s of independent people whose freedom is sacred in the online dating world.
• You just broke up with someone – celebrate the endings, they are new beginnings. One year from now, you might be laughing at yourself and saying a big “thank you” to your ex for doing such a great favor for you. Life is full of surprises.
• You moved to a new city. If you don’t know many people, you have two choices. Either enjoy staying at home and doing something fun (whatever makes you happy) or get dressed and go where people are – a restaurant, bar, gallery, shopping mall, or concert. You never know where you can meet your special one. You are not the only single in this city. How romantic would it be to meet your new love on Valentine’s Day?
• You moved to a new city and you are in a long distance relationship. Well, put on something cute, pour a glass of wine, and get on video chat with your beau. However, I would really suggest doing something that is described above.

If you are single on Valentine’s Day, it’s ok. You need to have fun, celebrate your happiness, and enjoy yourself.

Being single is about choices you’ve made in the past and whether you’ll remain single in the future totally depends on your choices now. Make a choice that is good for you and we’ll see – maybe you’ll be reading our newest program about the ultimate dating secrets

Broken heart? Here is a guide on how to survive Single Awareness Day

How do I get over a broken heart? If you are in the process of figuring that out, then Valentine’s Day aka Single Awareness Day probably makes you sad, sick in your stomach, and awfully depressed. You probably think about how miserable it would feel being by yourself while many happy couples are enjoying each other’s company. I’ve got news for you. The importance of Valentine’s Day is overestimated, overrated, and totally commercialized. Yes, it’s nice to have a day of love but if it is real love, why should it be celebrated for only one day? People deserve to be loved and treated nicely every single day of their lives. I’m not sure about eating too much chocolate or love cupcakes, but giving flowers and gifts is a must in each healthy relationship.

Valentine’s Day is the third largest sales day for florists, jewelry, gift companies, and restaurants after Black Friday and Cyber Monday! Therefore, all those symbols of love in each and every internet and TV ad are not about making you feeling special but about companies making healthy profits.

If you have a broken heart, there are 7 things to do on Single Awareness Day

•  First thing in the morning, type (or write) at least 5-7 things about your life that you are thankful for. Try to stretch it up to 10. There is a great chance that at the end of this exercise you’ll become thankful for being single.
•  Being single is your present relationship status, not a permanent diagnosis. This is a temporary condition that can always be improved. Be aware that there are many ways to meet great people – your future is in the future.
• Avoid visiting places where you might see many couples. While many of them might not be even so happy together, it would be better for you to stay away.
• Avoid spending time in a “men haters” club. Spinning negativity with unhappy and angry females and talking about how bad men are won’t make you feel better. Men are not bad; you just had an unfortunate experience.  The fact that your past relationship (or two or three) did not work, does not prove that you’ll be single forever. It just means that your time is not now.
• Remember, you are not alone! There are millions of people who are Single, Aware, and Happy.
• There is a price for everything and sometimes being by yourself is a way to pay for your freedom – the ability to do what you want or not to do what you don’t want.
• If you think that this day is about love, then go ahead and spoil yourself the way you would like to be spoiled. There is nothing wrong with treating yourself and who cares that you did it for you?