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21
Jan

Why Men Love Bitches Quotes – Part I

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Sherry Argov Quotes

  • Once a man begins to lose respect for a woman because she is willing to subtly devalue herself, he will also lose the desire to get closer to her.
  • There are two types of sexy. The woman who is obviously trying to be sexy. Then there is the woman who isn’t trying to be sexy – she just is. Most guys find the second one to be much sexier.
  • What would happen if you let him know from day one that you re willing to bend over backward? He’d think you’re desperate, and he’d want to see just how far you’d be willing to bend. It’s human nature.

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  • Overcompensating or being too eager to please will lessen a man’s respect; it will give the kiss of death to his attraction, and it will put a time limit on the relationship
  • Women are conditioned to give themselves away. I have yet to see a men’s magazine with an article on how to cook a woman a four-course meal. The closest they ever come to a recipe is in the bodybuilder section, when they tell guys to mix up a few egg whites with some wheat germ.

  • When you react emotionally, it gives him a feeling of control. And if you react emotionally frequently, over time he will come to see you as less of a mental challenge. If he can’t predict how you’ll always react, you remain a challenge.
  • A man will always want what he can’t have. When a man meets a woman and she seems nonchalant, it becomes a challenge for him to win her affections.
  • What women need to understand is that when a man considers a woman to be a prize, looks have very little to do with it. In the above example, it was a simple mind trick that goes like this; She acted like a prize, and then a funny thing happened. He completely forgot who he was looking at.
  • Never assume you are not attractive enough, and therefore you have to overcompensate or chase a man. Taste is subjective. One man’s “ugly” is another man’s “beautiful”. The first date is about looks. When he falls in love, it’s about your attitude. It’s about whether you can hold your own. Which is all about how you hold yourself.
  • The issue is not whether you turn him on; it’s whether he stays turned on after he has been satisfied. This is the key.
  • It started when he was a kid. When he received a toy for Christmas that he didn’t even ask for, he played with it for a while five minutes. The toy he cherished was the one he bought with two months’ allowance that sat on the top shelf in the toy store. He couldn’t reach it but went in to look at it all the time.
  • To give a man too much reassurance too soon is the same as over watering a plant. It kills it.
  • Women need to understand that men love the “thrill of the chase” and are highly competitive. They like racing cars, engaging in athletics, and hunting. They like to fix things, to figure things out, to pursue.
  • ….a man wants something he’ll go after it, and going after it makes him want it even more. If he doesn’t succeed right away, he starts to crave it. It captures his interest and excites his imagination.
  • …men often admitted that if the sex was too easy to get, it was not that great. It’s like blackjack. If he wins big right up front, he’s done for the night.
  • The objective while dating is not to be mean. It’s to give him the thrill of the chase by taking it slowly and letting him be a man. It’s easy to understand his nature because it is our human nature, too.
  • Whenever you make him feel as thought he has to see you, it will feel like work. When it’s not an obligation to see you, the very same thing will feel like pleasure.
  • Men like things that are difficult. They like to drive stick-shift automobiles. They like to jump out of airplanes, and hey like to climb mountains. They like to do the impossible. Therefore, when he has to go out of his way to see you, he is actually happier. I will not feel like work for him.
  • Eventually you won’t want to be around her because you won’t feel as thought she is contributing to your friendship. That’s how a guy feels when you are too dependent on him. It becomes a burden if you lean on him too much. He is only human, and he has his own problems. Show him that you’ll be an equal partner, which means that you also have something to contribute.
  • He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Only then will he perceive you as an equal partner.
  • This is also why giving him space is so important. It makes you look proud rather then desperate. It enables you to remain a challenge indefinitely. Why? You chose to be with him. You didn’t need to be. As a person, you feel you are complete with him or without him.
  • In general, there are two things a woman does to encourage a man to fall madly in love after he is attracted to her. First, she appeals to his imagination, sexually. Second, she waits a little while before consummating the relationship, sexually.
  • What men don’t want women to know is that, almost immediately, they put women into one of two categories: “good time only” or “worthwhile”. And the minute he slides you into that “good time only” category, you’ll almost never come back out. It’s not that the bitch is slutty or more conservative – it’s that she demands that the treat her as thought she is “worthwhile”. And, more often that not, it means revealing her sexuality a little at a time. With her demeanor, the bitch is subtly “driving the train”.
  • The doormat is more likely to be perceived as a pushover sexually because she’s more likely to sleep with a man for the wrong reasons – and much too soon. It has nothing to do with whether she appears conservative. Whether her style is long skirts and a ponytail and she attends napkin-folding class or she wears sexy clothes and seems like a party girl – the outcome can be the same. In either scenario, if she has sex with a man because she feels she needs to do so in order to win him, he’ll sense it and begin to lose respect for her.

 

 

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21
Jan

Unrequited Love Quotes

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Unrequited love quotes by Viktoria Kanevsky:

  • Unrequited love won’t kill you; it will waste your precious time and positive energy which is almost the same.
  • Sometimes after wanting a particular person for many days, weeks, months, or years, you will look back and think, “Why did I spend so much time wanting something that does not really exist?”
  • Unrequited love is just another form of a destructive addiction. If alcohol, cigarettes, and drugs kill your body first, unrequited love kills your soul and lets alcohol, cigarettes, and drugs finish its job.
  • Unrequited love is like a stair master – the longer you go, the more energy you need to keep moving. The difference is that after a stair master workout you’ll get in a positive mood and will become one step closer to your dream shape. Unrequited love will keep you negative and will take you nowhere.
  • Imagine taking all the money you have, cashing it out and throwing it in the wind…what a waste. You could do so much with that money from paying your bills to giving gifts to people you love, from getting everything you need to splurging yourself, etc. While you are stuck in unrequited love, you do the same thing with your energy.
  • If someone is stuck in unrequited love, it means that this person has no love or respect for himself (herself). Unrequited love is a dead end which means no future. A person with no future is not attractive or sexy.
  • Nobody has died from unrequited love…but life with it is not real life; it’s just an existence.

While dedicating your life serving your unrequited love, you let all your real chances go. Your real love will become someone else’s love, your wife will become someone else’s wife, your kids will call someone else “dad”, your money will go to someone else’s bank account, and your happiness will be buried without being

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20
Jan

How To Feel Happy

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How do you feel happy? Billions of people try finding the answer to this question. People look for happiness everywhere – in wealth and in love, in traveling and in settling down, in getting married and in getting divorced, in raising kids and in dedicating their life to themselves. Different people are looking for different things, doing different things, and dreaming about different things only because of one main reason – the feeling of happiness.

Finding happiness is an art which is why all people who really find it became incredibly popular – almost saints.

How to Feel Happy

1) Live in the moment. In order to feel happy all of the time, you need to learn how to feel happy each and every minute and then connect all those minutes together.

2) You have to learn how to switch from negative to positive in a matter of seconds (if you don’t know how, the Broken Heart 911 Program has a whole chapter dedicated to this topic).

3) In order to enjoy something as a whole, you need to learn how to enjoy the details first. For example, you get a cup of coffee in the morning. Instead of cursing that the coffee is spilling and it’s too hot, you forget to put in enough creamer and are going to be late at work, just take a minute, get rid of the feeling of being late and the anxiety that something bad will happen and enjoy the smell first, then the taste. Think about something that makes you happy while doing every sip; anything that makes you feel good will do the trick.

4) Remember that there are no bad things; there are things that make you feel bad and take you away from happiness and there are no bad people; there are toxic people that make you feel bad.

5) Reevaluate how you spend your time and who you are hanging out with on the regular basis. Are they worth your time and energy? Make a list of people who make you feel good. Try to spend more time with them.

6) Get enough sleep as well as sunshine (8-9 hours of sleep daily and 10 minutes under the sun will do the trick).

7) Don’t forget about your favorite music. However, if you love sad, heartbreaking songs, think again. You need something that will bring you happiness, not twirl, twist, and squeeze your heart and brain.

8) If you have a pet, it’s perfect, if you don’t, you can always visit a friend with a pet or a pet store. Science has shown that pets are major stress relievers.

9) Learn how to control your feelings. Get a pen and write a list of positive emotions on the left side, and a list of negative emotions on the right side. As soon as you catch yourself feeling something that belongs to the right side (anxiety, sadness, jealousy, anger, fear, etc) you need to get rid of this feeling.

10) Don’t get back to the past and stop feeling guilt and regret. Everything happens for a reason and for the best. You can’t control the circumstances; you can only control your behavior at the present moment. Therefore, start controlling it now, get rid of negative thoughts, and make the first step of being permanently happy.

11) Do not underestimate the power of exercise. The amount of oxygen that gets into your brain and releases the hormone of happiness is definitely worth spending time working out. One hour at the gym will not only get your body, but also your mind and soul in shape.

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17
Jan

Valentines Day Quotes

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  • “Valentine’s Day is the beginning of a new love circle – if you are attached it’s time to enhance your existing love, if you are single it’s time to start looking for a new soul mate. Valentine’sDay resolutions should be as popular as New Year’s resolutions.” – Viktoria Kanevsky
  • “Valentine’s Day is the time for complete happiness and relaxation. You should not worry about whether you are “paired” or not. What you should really worry about is if there is any love in your heart.” –Viktoria Kanevsky
  • “Valentine’s time equals love, but not a relationship; happiness, but not attachment; gifts, but not extensive shopping; flowers, but not meeting the sales goals of all florist companies; celebration, but not necessarily a date.” – Viktoria Kanevsky

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  • “Valentine’s Day is a reminder of how your loved one needs to be treated every day of the year. If there is love – each day must feel like Valentine’s Day, if there is no love – Valentine’s Day is a waste of time, money, and energy.” – Viktoria Kanevsky
  • “Valentine’s Day does not make you loved; it makes you go shopping and go out and if you don’t do that you might feel left behind. This is the largest mistake that contemporary media makes. However, business is business, how can we blame companies who make most of their money during this season?” – Viktoria Kanevsky
  • Anyone can catch your eye, but it takes someone special to catch your heart. ~ Unknown
  • Trip over love, you can get up.  Fall in love and you fall forever. ~ Unknown

 

  • We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.  ~ Unknown
  • I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you… - Roy Croft
  • Oh, if it be to choose and call thee mine, love, thou art every day my Valentine!  ~Thomas Hood
  • When love is not madness, it is not love.  ~ Pedro Calderon de la Barca
  • Loving is not just looking at each other, it’s looking in the same direction. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
  • Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.  ~ Albert Einstein

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  • I don’t understand why Cupid was chosen to represent Valentine’s Day.  When I think about romance, the last thing on my mind is a short, chubby toddler coming at me with a weapon.  ~ Unknown
  • For you see, each day I love you more. Today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow ~ Rosemonde Gerard
  • Love is a symbol of eternity.  It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end.  ~ Unknown
  • Love – a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker. ~ Unknown
  • You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover’s arms can only come later when you’re sure they won’t laugh if you trip.  ~ Jonathan Carroll, “Outside the Dog Museum”
  • I claim there ain’t, Another Saint, As great as Valentine.~Ogden Nash
  • A hundred hearts would be too few to carry all my love for you.~ Unknown

 

  • Must, bid the Morn awake!

Sad Winter now declines,
Each bird doth choose a mate;
This day’s Saint Valentine’s.
For that good bishop’s sake
Get up and let us see
What beauty it shall be
That Fortune us assigns.
~Michael Drayton

 

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  • I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love… – Henry Ward Beecher
  • I will find out where she has gone, And kiss her lips and take her hands… – William Butler Yeats
  • Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden… – Oscar Wilde
  • Love – a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction…Unknown
  • Love conquers all things… - Virgil
  • Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies…Aristotle
  • Love is the greatest refreshment in life… - Pablo Picasso
  • Love is the only gold… - Alfred Lord Tennyson
  • Time is Too slow for those who wait, Too swift for those who fear… - H enry van Dyke
  • Who would give a law to lovers? Love is unto itself a higher law… - Boethius

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Funny Valentine’s Day Quotes

  • “ Valentine’s Day is when a lot of married men are reminded what a poor shot Cupid really is.” ~ Anonymous.
  • “ Today is Valentine’s Day. Or, as men like to call it, Extortion day.” ~ Jay Leno.
  • “ I wanted to make it really special on Valentine’s Day, so I tied my boyfriend up. And for three solid hours I watched whatever I wanted on TV.” ~ Tracy Smith.
  • “ True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen.” ~ La Rochefoucauld.
  • “ One should always be in love. That is the reason one should never marry.” ~ Oscar Wilde.
  • “(Note to her gardener) Basement smells bad. Look for cat poops, change litter. Happy Valentines Day.” ~ Martha Stewart.
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16
Jan

Valentines Day History

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The history of Valentine’s Day — and its patron saint — is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine’s Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.

One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men — his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine’s actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.

Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.

According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first “valentine” greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl — who may have been his jailor’s daughter — who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed “From your Valentine,” an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure.

It’s no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.

While some believe that Valentine’s Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine’s death or burial — which probably occurred around 270 A.D — others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine’s feast day in the middle of February in an effort to “christianize” celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification.

Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.

To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.

The boys then sliced the goat’s hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city’s bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine’s Day around 498 A.D.

The Roman “lottery” system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds’ mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February — Valentine’s Day — should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.

In Great Britain, Valentine’s Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one’s feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine’s Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.

According to the Greeting Card Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making Valentine’s Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year. (An estimated 2.6 billion cards are sent for Christmas.)

Approximately 85 percent of all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States, Valentine’s Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and Australia.

Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages (written Valentine’s didn’t begin to appear until after 1400), and the oldest known Valentine card is on display at the British Museum. The first commercial Valentine’s Day greeting cards produced in the U.S. were created in the 1840s by Esther A. Howland. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as “scrap.”

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14
Jan

99 Laws Of The Universe

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1. You cannot know what was is good and what is evil.

2. However, you need to know that the good imposed is evil.

3. You don’t know what the Universe needs.

4. There is no “right” or “wrong.” You do not know which is which.

5. There are no bad things, events, or circumstances. There are things, events, and circumstances that make you sad.

6. There are no good things, events, or circumstances; there are things, events and circumstances that make you happy.

7. The Universe if too large to be hurt, so you can’t do anything bad to it.

8. The Universe, perhaps, needs your mistakes.

9. Your mistakes won’t damage the Universe.

10. Don’t look for the truth; it does not exist. If the truth exists, you don’t need it.

11. Don’t look for the life’s meaning. If it exists, it is beyond life’s borders.

12. Don’t worry about yourself. In fact, you are too precious for the Universe and the Universe doesn’t want you to vanish.

13. How do you define your goals? Do they really belong to you?

14. Don’t feel guilty about anything. Nothing is your fault.

15. Do not bother telling people what to do – how would you know what is real and what is not, what is true and what is false?

16. If what you do is difficult, think whether it really needs to be done.

17. Do things that are given to you, but do it with all your abilities, strengths, and determination.

18. If you did something by accident, according to the Universe, it was done on purpose.

19. You need to support everything you like and elude from all you don’t like.

20. If your mistake’s consequences can be fixed, you haven’t made mistake yet.

21. Everything happens on time.

22. Sometimes the cost of the right solutions might be more expensive than a mistake.

23. Happening is beyond your will or control. However, it’s up to you if you are willing to accept it.

24. If you don’t know the directions, take a companion. If you know the way, go by yourself.

25. To be strong means to be lonely. A very strong person is stronger along. You can choose how strong you want to be.

26. Every person is alone. A strong person accepts and blesses his solitude while a weak person runs away from it.

27. You should be very calm and attentive to the world so you won’t miss a moment of force.

28. When you try to learn about yourself from others, you provide them with power. You have to keep complete control over your life.

29. You must bless all missed opportunities because you gained the biggest opportunities.

30. Give away, forgive, and lose ease.

31. If you feel sorry that you didn’t have too much joy, you acquire sadness.

32. Learn to love your enemy in order to win.

33. If your enemy caught you by surprise but you are still alive, it means that he is in your hands.

34. A person who wants to break you wills is weak, don’t be afraid of him.

35. Neglect is the best revenge.

36. If you want to weaken the resistance, you should step back.

37. Don’t try to be stronger than your contender; just search for his weak spots.

38. If you love your enemy, you get to know him better. The more you know your enemy, the more it works to your advantage.

39. You might not always win, but you can make yourself invincible. A victory is up to your contender, but your invincibility is up to you.

40. It does not matter who your contender is – try to see him as a person. You’ll realize really soon that this approach gives you a huge advantage.

41. To have a taste and to make yourself full are two different pleasures. You should not confuse them.

42. You know the rules. However, you don’t know all rules that the world is operated by.

43. There are people who are destructive to you. It does not mean that they are bad. It means that being close to them is destructive to you. There are people who make you stronger when you are next to them. It does not mean that they are good. What it does mean is that being near those people makes you stronger. Pay attention when you spend time with other people. You need to avoid communication with destructive people and stay as close as you can to people who make you stronger. If you can’t do it, avoid a friendship altogether.

44. When a fire is approaching, it shines first. Then, it warms you up. After that, it burns you.

45. You are immortal now because you are still alive.

46. Do not fear curses and don’t look for praises. Neither of them bring something new to you.

47. You create worry and anxiety while measuring your success by praises or blames.

48. Don’t think where to go if you are staying in the middle of a suspension bridge.

49. You can never tell where you are going. The only thing you can say is where you are hoping to go.

50. Do not fight because you will inevitably become what you fight against.

51. Remember about the “thirteen hits’ law”. If your clock hits thirteen times instead of twelve, you have to throw it away. It does not matter what kind of guarantee you will receive about its repair.

52. Any behavior consists of opposites. If you do something and try too hard, then sooner or later you’ll get the opposite. Any excessive desire attracts the opposite.

53. A wise leader does not form an event. He lets the process be. If any situation seems too complicated for you, just let it be. When the situation is on its own, it eventually will take care itself.

54. Do not rush things. Let the process unfold.

55. Silence is a great source of strength.

56. Time from time, leave people and go back to silence. Learn to be yourself.

57. Silence and a clear sense of being are the sources of any effective action.

58. Silence and an empty space would reveal your mood. This is the place of your being.

59. Intend to be genuinely interested in yourself. It will teach you dedication.

60. Try to listen easily. Put some effort into listening to every word. Dive into your inner silence and observe yourself. Then, you will have an opportunity to have a clear mind.

61. When you will learn your own depths, you will be able to communicate with the depths of others.

62. When you free yourself from who are you, you become a person who you can be.

63. When you free yourself from what you have, you can receive what you need.

64. The feeling of being devastated indicates that you are at the beginning of your growth period.

65. When you don’t desire much, lots of things will come to you.

66. When you stop trying to impress, you will become pretty impressive.

67. The true power of influence is not based on technical tricks or some set of rules. You have to stay in being, not in doing.

68. Hidden wisdom says that you have to give away in order to achieve.

69. Excessive attempts are counterproductive.

70. While you are in being and not using the formula – TO BE – TO DO – TO CREATE. If you would like to create something, you need to figure out what you must to do for it. Don’t repeat the mistakes of other people who try to do something in a hurry, but don’t achieve anything. You need to step back to the beginning of the formula and ask again, “Who do I need to be in order to do it? Then, stay in being. However, you will receive a clear, concrete result – the one you wanted to create. This is the core of the Universe’s magic.

71. You need to know where you belong and what you’re worth. This is your core.

72. You need to clarify your purpose. Then, you can achieve it without any fuss.

73. You need to watch nature and science processes such as motion of the planets, sun light, and the attraction of the Earth. They have the power and strength because they simply exist. Your body works in sync with those processes. Freedom comes from subordination. Remember, you are a part of a natural process.

74. When you stay outside of events, meditate over the question: What happens when nothing happens?

75. There is no difference between what happens and how it happens.

76. Stay neutral and do not take sides.

77. Trust what is happening. Accept what is happening. While trusting and accepting, your position remains strong.

78. The formula of power is the formula of management. The art of management is based on the understanding of this formula. If you want to manage many, imagine what drives a few. Intend to see one part of the large picture. Managing people who are the same is much easier than managing different people. It is easier to manage people who have the same goal than people who do not have the same goal. It is easier to manage people who have the same enemy than manage people who have different enemies. You need to divide a large picture into small pieces. Then, you will receive all the details. In order to manage effectively, make all people the same. The art of making people the same develops from the skill of seeing them differently.

79. Be the owner, not the guest. The owner is the one who one who authorizes or permits, allows or does not allow. He is not the one who asks, but one who is asked. He is not someone who needs, but the one who is essential. He is not the one who goes, but the one who is visited. The guest is the one who is asking permission to visit or to enter. The guest is the one who asks, needs, or inquires permission. If you have a meeting, try to conduct it on your territory. Let people come to you. However, if you have an appointment; try to switch places with the owner. It all depends on your inner attitude. To be an owner is an inner position, not an external movement.

80. An arguing person is always the petitioner. Subconsciously, he asks for attention. Therefore, an arguing individual is the guest.

81. Do not argue and do not let a disputer involve you. Do not partner with stupidity.

82. A person who begins arguing is obviously obtains a weak position because he is a petitioner (even if an unspoken one)

83. Think of the power that is behind you, and then this power will actually stand up for you.

84. Be indifferent to any message. Do not be like the king, by executing the messenger for bad news. Power is in indifference and this power rules the world.

85. Learn to distinguish between reversible and irreversible. Then, you learn to control time.

86. Let the following be your temporary teachers:
Darkness – it is impossible to see
Thunder – you can never foresee who it will hit
Fire – it is warm near it, but you easily can burn yourself Learn unpredictability and inaccessibility.

87. Your best teacher is your own path. Do not look for the master; he is near you side by side. You need to open up in order to see him.

88. Distinguish between empty and solid.
The quality of solid is support.
The quality of empty is unreliability.
Solid is

-         trusted information

-         someone who can be relied upon

-         a fulfilled promise

-         the car that will be started and run promptly.

-         a performed order

-         a word that will be heard and understood. Solid is what gives the result.


Empty is

-         non accurate information

-         an unreliable ally

-         a lazy worker

-         a dishonest manager

-         an unfulfilled promise

The result of the interaction between solid and empty is empty.

If in your project at least one component will be empty, the whole project will turn out to be empty.
Solid is set apart from empty in your inner world.

89. Strive to feel your own way because your path is the best manager.

90. If you know your path, all your successes and failures will be pushing you forward.

91. You won’t be able to distinguish between success and failure if tomorrow comes.

92. Understanding is above knowledge.

93. Everybody rules the world. Someone does it bad and someone does it good. A child manages their parents, an employee manages the boss, all people control all other people.  Everything controls everything.

94. If somebody asks you a favor but they don’t want to return the act of kindness, you should know that they do not ask, but just offer you to do something.

95. Do not feel sorry, don’t have fears, do not ask.

96. The past and future are born in present.

97. God is here and now.

98. Learn how to say “no.”

99. Laws can be broken only if necessary.

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12
Jan

Valentines Day Poems

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more valentines day poems / love poems / romantic poems / broken heart poems / break up poems / poems about live / friendship poems /inspirational poems

  • Won’t You Be My Valentine

For all the times I have hurt you,
All the times I didn’t support you.
For all the times I failed to shine,
Darling, won’t you be my Valentine?

For all the times I have let you down,
And all the times I made you frown.
For all the times I blew your mind,
Darling, won’t you be my Valentine?

For all the times I told a lie,
And all the times I made you cry.
For all the times that I was blind,
Darling, won’t you be my Valentine?

For all the times you have missed me,
And all the times you have kissed me.
For all the times your lips touched mine,
Darling, won’t you be my Valentine?

For all the times we made sweet love,
Al the times we prayed to God above.
For that little girl, sweet daughter of mine,
Darling, won’t you be my Valentine?

For all the hurt and all the tears,
The good times throughout the years.
For all the time you have been mine,
Darling, won’t you be my Valentine? – Ronald Doe

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  • My First, My Last, My Valentine…

I’ve never imagined that there can be this day.
A day that love will find its way.
Out of my heart and into your soul.
These feelings I have are beyond my control.

All my life I have waited patiently.
For a goddess like you, so beautiful, so lovely.
Words can’t express the way I feel.
These feelings towards you are all for real.

You are the reason why I go on.
Eternity can’t separate this special bond.
This heart of mine is reserved for you.
Forever it is yours, this love is true.

I’ll be your first and you’ll be my last.
My world, my everything, till my time has past.
I will always love you until the end of time.
MY LOVE, MY SWEETHEART, MY VALENTINE!  – by Sokea Meas

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  • Valentine Poem to Boyfriend – My Valentine


You’re everything to me.
Love was where we were meant to be.
You’re so sweet.
Kissing you knocks me off my feet.
Dancing with you in the bright moon light.
When we’re together I know it feels so right.
Your kisses take my breath away.
I love being with you every night and every day.
Loving you is like a dream come true.
I love you.
If I couldn’t tell you how I feel.
Would you wonder if this love is real?
My love for you goes on for each mile.
No matter what you do you always make me smile.
So this poem is showing you that you’re everything to me.
You’re funny, sweet and you’re always true.
That’s why you’re a part of me
I love you, you’re my valentine.
And 4 ever I’m and yours and you are mine. – by Tasha M. Andrews

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  • Valentine Poem  – When I Found You

When I found you
I used to dream that someday I might
find a lover who would be tender, kind,
and passionate…

I used to dream that someone whose
touch would awaken my heart and fill
me with sensations I had only
imagined I would ever feel…

A partner who would show me how love
was meant to be…

I told myself that this was more than
I could hope for-more than I could
ever deserve.

I used to hope that someday I might
have a friend who would know what was
deep inside my heart some one with
whom I would be safe to share my
secrets, my dreams, my fantasies, and
my fears…

A friend I could always count on to
listen and to understand…

I told myself that this was more
than anyone could hope and much more
than I could ever be worthy of…

I never let my heart imagine that I
would find all of this and more…
but that’s what was waiting for me in
your arms.

I found the best friend and the best
lover I could ever have hoped for… When
I found you

Happy Valentine’s day
to my dreams come true.   - Pauline L. Howard

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  • Valentine’s Day

Valentines, valentines
Red, white and blue
I’ll make a nice one
And send it to you.

 

  • Valentine’s Day

If I could be the postman
For just one single time,
I’d choose to carry Valentines
So lovely and so fine.
I would not mind the heavy load,
Or mind my tired feet.
If I could scatter happiness
All up and down the street.

 

  • For Valentine’s Day

Out of a snow cloud, cold and gray,
Something dropped on St. Valentine’s Day,
Whirling and twirling and soft and light,
Like wee little letters all dainty and white,
And I guess the sky children were sending down,
This Valentine straight to the children in town.

 

  • Counting Valentines

Valentines, valentines, how many do I see?
Valentines, valentines, count them with me.
I have red ones, orange ones, yellow ones, too.
I have green ones, purple ones, and some that are blue.
Valentines, valentines, how many do I see?
Count them with me! 1-2-3-4-5…..

  • 5 Little Valentines


Five little valentines were having a race
The first little valentine was frilly with lace.
The second little valentine had a funny face.
The third little valentine said, “I love you”.
The fourth little valentine said, “I do too”.
The fifth little valentine was sly as a fox.
He ran the fastest to the valentine box.

 

  • Valentine Verses


Now St. Valentine is here.
We greet his birthday with a cheer.
For happiness from friend to friend
Flies with the Valentines we send.

Today as Valentines go out
To people near and far,
This one I’m sending right to you
To say how nice you are.

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  • Love is a Circle


Love is a circle,
Round and round,
Love goes up,
And love comes down,
Love is on the inside,
Trying to get out,
Love is whirling and twirling about!

 

  • To My Valentine

If apples were pears
And peaches were plums
And the rose had a different name.
If tigers were bears
And fingers were thumbs
I’d love you just the same.

Valentine so bright and gay,
I am sending out today.
With the message, “I love you,”
Hoping that you love me, too.

 

  • A Valentine


Frost flowers on the window glass,
Hopping chickadees that pass,
Bare old elms that bend and sway,
Pussy willows soft and gray.
Silver clouds across the sky,
Lacy snow flakes flitting by,
Icicles like fringe in line
That is outdoor’s Valentine.

I do not love you as if you were salt-rose, or topaz,
or the arrow of carnations the fire shoots off.
I love you as certain dark things are to be loved,
in secret, between the shadow and the soul.
I love you as the plant that never blooms
but carries in itself the light of hidden flowers;
thanks to your love a certain solid fragrance,
risen from the earth, lives darkly in my body.
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
so I love you because I know no other way
than this: where I does not exist, nor you,
so close that your hand on my chest is my hand,
so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep. Pablo Neruda.

 

 

  • Beautiful Love

If I could spend a day with you,
we’d never get enough of each other’s company.
We’d hold hands as we strolled
along the beach and we’d talk about everything.

If I could spend an evening with you,
I’d cherish each minute that we’re together.
I’d stare into your eyes,
and, without a single word,
you’d know how much I love you.

If I could spend a night with you,
I’d hold you in my arms the
whole night long…
and I’d make passionate love to you.

If I could spend a day with you,
we’d never get enough of each other’s company.
We’d hold hands as we strolled
along the beach and we’d talk about everything.

If I could spend an evening with you,
I’d cherish each minute that we’re together.
I’d stare into your eyes,
and, without a single word,
you’d know how much I love you.

If I could spend a night with you,
I’d hold you in my arms the
whole night long…
and I’d make passionate love to you.

If I could spend my life with you,
I’d try to make you happy.
I’d always be there for you,
wiping away your tears when
you’re sad or blue,
and every day,
I’d tell you how much I cherish you
and our beautiful love.

 


 

I can’t begin to tell you
How much you mean to me
My world would end if ever we were through
I can’t begin to tell you
How happy I would be
If I could speak my mind like others do
I make such pretty speeches whenever we’re apart
But when you’re near
The words I choose refuse to leave my heart
So take the sweetest phrases the world has ever known
And make believe I’ve said them all to you
I Can’t Begin To Tell You
- Bing Crosby

You’re in my thoughts and in my heart
Wherever I may go;
On Valentine’s Day I’d like to say
I care more than you know.
- By Joanna Fuchs

On Valentine’s Day,
I’m thinking about
the special ways
you have made my life better.
The little things,
the not-so-little things…
Your kindness,
the way you always listen
and pay attention to me.
You make my world brighter and richer.
You’re a gift to me,
and I thank you for being you.
- By Joanna Fuchs

 

I love you all through February,
Not just on Valentine’s Day;
I cherish you when flowers of spring
Appear in the midst of May.
I adore you in the summer,
When the air is filled with heat;
Without you in my life each day,
I wouldn’t be complete.
I treasure you in fall,
When leaves are turning gold;
I loved you when you were younger;
I’ll love you when you’re old.
I prize you in the winter,
When colder days are here;
I love you, love you all the time,
Every minute of the year.
So I’ll give to you this Valentine,
But I want to let you know,
It’s not just today, but always,
That I will love you so.
- By Joanna Fuchs

 

My Valentine, you’re all I want;
In you, I find joy and delight;
You give me everything I need;
I’m happiest when you’re in sight.
I think of you both night and day;
I’m drawn to you in pure attraction;
When you’re not here, I ache for you,
For your fulfilling satisfaction.
I dreamed of love like this, and yet,
I never thought that I would capture
The deep, exciting thrills we have,
This intoxicating bliss and rapture.
Please be my Valentine, and more;
Be my life, my world, my all;
Together we can be content,
And share life’s pleasures, big and small.
- Anonymous

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11
Jan

"I Hate Valentines Day" – How To Deal With Your Fear

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“I hate valentines day!” is the most common phrase said by single people in their most despised holiday – Single Awareness Day. There are reasons behind this saying because society puts tremendous pressure on currently single people.

People who are single by choice suddenly start feeling anxiety and doubts about their lifestyles. “What if…” they think. This means “What if I made the wrong choice, what if I had gotten married, what if I had concentrated on looking for my potential significant other?” Those multiple “ifs” twirl inside of their heads 24/7 as soon as they are trigged by multiple red ads with heart shaped objects.

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People who are single by choice usually win those inner battles pretty quickly and do not acknowledge the “V” holiday at all. They pretend it does not exist. However, this group of people is not that big. The largest “I hate Valentines Day” group is people who went through a dramatic break up. They either just cured their broken heart or still have it. Those people would give up lots of things in their lives in order to be held by someone who loves them on Valentines Day. Of course, 90% of those people are women.

Unfortunately, the real situation is not that simple. Those single people who dread being single on Valentines Day put a tremendous amount of pressure, anxiety, jealousy, and negativity on themselves. This is very dangerous because it can not only damage their health, but can also attract negative events in other areas of their lives (work, family, social, etc). Their inner moaning and crying about their exes might lead to not only multiple diseases (if they have kids under thirteen years old, the kids might get sick), but also to unemployment, loss of business, and conflicts with family and friends.

Dear people whose favorite mantra is “I Hate Valentines Day!”, stop chanting it right now. You have to switch your attention. If you don’t know how to do it, the Broken Heart 911 program has a whole chapter dedicated to this subject

Why don’t you treat Valentines Day like Martin Luther King Day, Saint Patrick’s Day, or Veterans Day? You don’t have a date? Great! It is much better to be meaningfully single than to be alone within the couple. Go out and watch people. You will be surprised how many couples are “on duty” because “they have to do valentine rituals.” Yes, there are lots of happy couples and it’s great. However, if you are not in a happy or at least functional relationship, it is better to be single. You don’t have to be completed. The “to be complete” myth was created by the sales department of the first matchmaking service.

There are several ideas for single people on how to spend Valentines Day:

  • Is there something that you have always wanted to do, but never had extra time or budget? Do it on Valentines Day whether it is trying a pole dancing class, doing a seaweed wrap, or buying a useless but beautiful piece of jewelry.
  • Do you have a single friend or relative who you haven’t seen in a while? Go see this person. Perhaps you have your favorite niece who can’t wait to see you or your little sister who never gets your attention. If you are a single parent, spend your time with your kid doing something fun. Trust me, her (his) memories will be more valuable in the long term than spending time with “whoever was available.”
  • Splurge on anything you want that would make you feel good.
  • Go see a great movie, play, or concert.
  • Remember that you are not the only one. You just feel like it. There are millions of people who are in the same boat as you.

Read this blog. We are going to create a month long Valentines section that will be dedicated to making all single and broken hearted people feel good. Instead of thinking “I hate Valentines Day”, think “Let me make this Valentines Day the first day of my new, happy life.” Some people make New Year Resolution, you make a Valentines Day Resolution that will be the first stair on a large ladder of your future happiness.

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10
Jan

Funny Quotes About Women

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  • There are easier things in life than trying to find a nice guy…like nailing jelly to a tree for example
  • Men always want to be a woman’s first love – women like to be a man’s last romance – Oscar Wilde
  • Women don’t want to hear what you think. Women want to hear what they think – in a deeper voice – Bill Cosby
  • Women like silent men.  They think they’re listening.  ~Marcel Achard
  • Sure God created man before woman.  But then you always make a rough draft before the final masterpiece.  ~Unknown
  • The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.  ~ Unknown
  • Can you imagine a world without men?  No crime and lots of happy fat women.  ~ Nicole Hollander
  • When a man talks dirty to a woman, it’s sexual harassment.  When a woman talks dirty to a man, it’s $3.95 a minute. ~ Unknown
  • If women didn’t exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning.  ~ Aristotle Onassis
  • No matter how good she looks, some other guy is sick and tired of putting up with her crap. ~ Unknown
  • I would rather trust a woman’s instinct than a man’s reason.  ~ Stanley Baldwin
  • If your husband expects you to laugh, do so; if he expects you to cry, don’t; if you don’t know what he expects, what are you doing married?  ~ Mignon McLaughlin
  • The supply of good women far exceeds that of the men who deserve them.  ~ Robert Graves


  • Good-looking girls break hearts, and goodhearted girls mend them.  ~ Mignon McLaughlin

  • Women always worry about the things that men forget; men always worry about the things women remember.  – Unknown
  • The happiest women, like the happiest nations, have no history. – GEORGE ELIOT
  • From birth to eighteen, a girl needs good parents, from eighteen to thirty-five she needs good looks, from thirty-five to fifty-five she needs a good personality, and from fifty-five on she needs cash. – SOPHIE TUCKER

  • What is better than wisdom? Woman. And what is better than a good woman? Nothing – GEOFFREY CHAUCER
  • When women go wrong, men go right after them – Mae West.
  • A woman who pretends to laugh at love is like a child who sings at night when he is afraid
  • You don’t know a woman until you have a letter from her – Ada Leverson
  • A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are. – Chauncey Depew
  • Men are a luxury, not a necessity – Cher
  • The trouble with women is that they get all excited about nothing…and then marry him -  Cher
  • Tough we adore men individually, we agree that as a group they’re rather stupid – Mary Poppins
  • Women cannot complain about men anymore until they start getting better taste in them – Bill Maher
  • The only time a woman really succeeds in changing a man is when he’s a baby – Natalie Wood
  • A woman who seeks to be equal to men lacks ambition
  • A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle – Gloria Steinem
  • Don’t give a woman advice; one should never give a woman anything she can’t wear in the evening. - Oscar Wilde
  • A woman knows she’s wearing the right dress, when her man wants to take it off. ~ Robert Paul
  • Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea. ~ Robert A. Heinlein ~


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9
Jan

Rebound Girl

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“Am I his rebound girl?” you might be asking yourself in the beginning of a new relationship. Being a rebound girl is much worse then being a rebound guy. Don’t let illusions trick you. If he was in a relationship recently, be very alert, especially if his beloved ex girlfriend or wife dumped him. I suggest that you walk away from him as soon as you understand that you are his rebound girl.

Yes, he will be hurt even more. However, if you won’t leave him, he will hurt you. If you are a Mother Teresa who is looking to save lives…be my guest and keep dating him (you can even let yourself believe that you will make him forget his ex). If your ultimate goal is to get married and live happily ever after, move on.

How to Find Out if You Are a Rebound Girl

1) Ask questions – don’t be afraid. You have absolutely nothing to lose, except your valuable time. Ask if he’s ever been in love…ask how long he was been with his ex and why they broke up. Ask what his ex is doing now (attention, if they just broke up and she is already in a relationship, there is a huge chance that he’s been dumped and he has a broken heart).

2) Look for evidence – pictures in his place, in his computer, or his phone. Ask him if he has his ex’s picture (if he has it in his phone it’s not a major red flag).

3) Ask if he is “friends” with his ex or if she is friends with his friends and family.

Women have a tendency to think that they have to be subtle in order to not scare a man away. Guess what? If your man decides to leave you, he will leave you.

There is a huge difference between being a rebound girl and a rebound guy. Guys might even like the idea of being a rebound friend. If they are not looking for a serious relationship, they might simply enjoy a win–win situation where a girl is getting her self-esteem lifted and her time filled with sex and other “look like relationship activities.”

However, women are wired differently. Very few women are looking for casual sex and dating. Most women see dating as awful, but unfortunately a necessary process that will lead to “living happily ever after and dying on the same day holding hands.”

Therefore if you see the following red flags, you should leave ASAP.

1) He just ended a long term relationship.

2) He ended a relationship a long time ago, but still really misses his ex.

3) He talks about his ex a lot.

4) He says really bad things about his ex (it’s even worse; it means that he’s been hurt and that he is not a gentleman).

5) He has pictures of his ex in his place, computer, and phone.

6) He has his ex’s belongings in his place or his car.

7) His ex is still very close with his mom, sister, or best friends.

8) He points to females on TV who are the same type as his ex.

9) Drinking and sex are the two primary activities you two do together.

10) He is not in a hurry to jump in a serious relationship any time soon because he is not ready, he wants to establish himself professionally, “it’s not you, it’s me, baby”, etc.

Remember, there are many more emotionally available men out there and you need to respect and love yourself in order to not get into the “rebound girl” trap.

  • As soon as he will recover, he will leave you because you will always be a reminder of his break up, broken heart and the pain he went through.
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