Any break up is hard but being dumped on New Year’s Eve is a tough and completely cruel experience. The email below is from a woman who had her heart broken on New Year’s Eve.

“I want to heal my broken heart as quickly as I can. How should I move on? I’ve been with my boyfriend for four years. He broke up with me on New Year’s Eve without any reason. I’ve treated him like a king and loved him more than I loved myself for the last four years. Even though sometimes he treated me like an animal, I always forgave him. Please, help me. I need some advice. What should I do about my hurt feelings?”

Broken Heart 911 Comments

It is an amazing thing that you would like to heal your heart fast and reached out for help. Your email is very short and we don’t have much info to comment on, so we’ll try out best…

• In order for you to heal your broken heart, you need to understand the real reason why you were dumped. Just a quick glance at your letter shows that you have no idea why he did it. “I loved him more than I loved myself” – this is one of several reasons described in the “Broken Heart 911” e-book along with the “dumping formula.”

• You said that “he treated you like an animal”…well, it’s pretty self-descriptive. You should ask yourself, “Would I like to be treated like an animal again?” Then you should answer honestly. Yes, there are people who enjoy suffering, but I am not the right person to advise those people. There are clinics with certified doctors.

I am sure that you are a great person with a beautiful soul who deserves to be happy. Therefore, instead of being sad, you have to be happy that you got rid of your boyfriend. Yes, it’s very sad to be dumped on New Year’s Eve. However, New Year night is over, and there is a new, beautiful year ahead of you where you can meet your true love and build a real relationship where both of you will be happy.

• Everything happens for a reason and perhaps this New Year break up was a sign that enough is enough. Four years is one of the main relationship milestones and more than 40% of relationships are over by that time.

• The first thing you need to do is stop panicking, crying, and talking about your situation. What you really need to do is accept the reality.

Unfortunately, your letter was very short but we have lots of free information in our Broken Heart Section as well as the program “Broken Heart 911” that covers each and every aspect of break up from A to Z.

Just remember two things

1)    Your heart is as broken as you let it be.

2)    Nobody died from a broken heart.