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Forgiveness is one of the biggest gifts of emotional life. Forgiveness helps people become free from the past.
Before you forgive someone, you need to clearly understand what forgiveness really means. When we suggest forgiving your ex, it does not mean that you have to completely forget what he (she) has done to you and how hurt you were after the breakup. Also, your forgiveness will not justify someone’s bad actions.
You need to say to yourself, “I won’t let it happen again.” You can dedicate your life to prevent further damage. Forgiveness does not mean that you have to find that person and speak to him (her) again. It also does not mean that you have to get your ex back even though you might think, “I want my ex back so bad and I want to date my ex again.”
Forgiveness is an act that takes place in your heart moving you towards freedom and away from pain, anger, jealousy, and other emotions that you’ve carried for a while.
Forgiveness is a long process for the majority of people. It you were hurt a lot after a break up, forgiveness might take many long years.
How to forgive your ex
There were many situations where you’ve been hurt by your ex or by his (her) thoughts, words, and actions. Your ex
might’ve done it consciously or unconsciously.
You have to repeat this exercise quietly, until you will be able to forgive your ex.
The most important thing is to not experience bad emotions while you are doing this. It will take time, but you’ll be able to forgive your ex and make your life happy. “But I want my ex back” is the thought is spinning in your mind. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe that’s why “your ex” is “your ex” and not your present.
If you want to have an amazing love life and relationships, you have to forgive your ex in order to move on. Your bad feelings, pain, and insults are like an anchor that prevents you from sailing forward towards your new life. So therefore, forgive your ex!
I had always fantasized having a gorgeous “older woman” to teach me how to truly “make love” and give a woman a truly pleadureable experience. I also felt having such a woman – older, sexy, beautiful – being with a younger man like myself would also be the perfect way for me to fulfill and satisfy my own sexual desires and personal fetishes. I knew from the moment she was hired by the company I was working with that she was the ultimate woman – for me to manipulate and control – with just one singular thought in my mind – I would “use her: to live out all of my most sexually satisfying unfulfilled desires. After some weeks of flirting, keeping our relationship strictly fiscreet from our co-workers, she gave me a key to her home, in the most exclusive part of Santa Monica, where I lived with her mostly in her bedroom, out of the way of her 4 groen children – all of whom I got along with beautifully – so much so that those times we’d all be sitting together for lunch or dinner, I actually felt at those times I was not “her boyfriend,” but I really had convinced myself she “was my mother.” It was all part of my own twisted mind’s sexual fantasy – label it an Oedipus complex if you choose to – brcause it was all that and much more. She would enjoy dressing herself up in the sexy lingerie and sic inch stilettos I bought for her; garters, seamed hose, the perfect living picture of all I desired, and we enjoyed ourselves sexually over a period of 20 years. During that time, I decided I wanted to do all these things with other women as well, so at 5 different times i broke up with her looking “someone better.” After spending six to 8 monthsat a time with these other women, I would go running back to my “one and only.” and she took me back every time…why? perhaps because when we met I was 29 and she was 49 – so from her point of view she was one of the earliest “Cougars” out there enjoying herself with a much younger man. Well, she moved to Florida from California and I hadn’t seen or heard from her in five years…as it happened I too moved to Flordia and used a detective agency to locate her, and lo and behold, she was living a mile away from me. I met her for dinner and stated my case for offering her my trul and lasting love for the rest of our lives, and I meant every word I said to her…it came from the warmest and most loving place inside of my heart. Well, over the next two yesrs she would purposely go out of her way to meantally and physically abuse me – what I began to conclude came from her own pent up rage at how I had treated her like a toy for all those years together, and now it was “her turn”: to get the ultimate revenge. It ended horribly and I left her for good after having hoped at this stage of our lives forgiveness would win over. I forgave myself for all my indsicretions, but she held a seething hatred for me that threatened my very life, so I ended it all….of course I still remember all the very best times we shared over those 20 years.
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