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How To Please Your Man
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Millions of women are trying to answer an eternal question – how do I make my man happy and how do I please him in order to have a happy and healthy relationship? 
If you are reading this now, congratulations – you are at the right place.
So how do you please your man, how do you make a man want you, and, most importantly, how do you keep your man and make him come back again and again?
I believe that this subject should be taught in high school. Why? Because if a woman is not happy in a relationship, she is not able to concentrate on her work, family, and social life. If women knew how to operate in a relationship smoothly, they would be able to safe lots of time and positive energy for other areas of their life.
How to Please Your Man 101
- If you are already with someone, learn how to accept this person. Remember, unless your boyfriend is five years old, you won’t be able to change him. You really can’t teach an old dog new trick. Yes, you can adjust his behavior if you act sophisticated and cunningly. Your weapon is stealth. You must be a lover, not a soldier. If you realize that you are absolutely can’t tolerate something that your man does, don’t wait. Make a fast exit. You don’t have time to waste, do you?
- You have to find out what makes your man really happy and give it to him.
I’m not talking about buying him a new Bentley (though if you can afford it, why not?) Do you know what he really likes? Going out with his boys? Watching sports? Hunting? New software programs? Some homemade food? Find out ways of giving it to him, or pushing him in that direction. Trust me, if you say, “honey, go out with your friends, I’ll do my things tonight”, he will not only appreciate that, but he will be sitting with friends talking about how nice you are and will be counting minutes to get back. Don’t wait until he gives something to you, don’t wait for something in return, just genuinely give him what he wants.
- Make him feel comfortable in your presence. Yes, men love sexy women in lingerie and fireworks in bed. But fireworks do not happen every day. A comfort zone must be in the every day menu. You need to become his everything – personal nurse, therapist, confident, financial advisor, stylist, etc. I’m not telling you to become his maid or cook on a daily basis, but a best friend, yes (by the way, there is nothing wrong with treating him with great cooking). You must become the one who he needs for advice and emotional support.
- Men are wired to the word “fun.” Make everything “fun.” All activities you do together must be fun and end up with positive memories. The formula is really simple. If the last thing he remembers about you is fun, he will want to come back soon. If the last thing he remembers is negative and painful, he’ll keep his distance. Substitute negative to positive and enjoy results.
- No fights or arguments. Of course, you must have your viewpoints, but they should be brought out softly. The less you argue, the better. Again, I’m not telling you to becoming a voiceless doormat. Men respect women with opinions.
But leave useless debates at the door. Let him argue at work and boys nights out. You are there to support him, not to fight him.
- Give him freedom or at least pretend that you totally support it. The more freedom he will have, the less he will actually need. The best model that has been worked for centuries is when a man makes a decision, while a woman tells him what decision to make. When you achieve this level of expertise, you’ll keep him forever.
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Jul
Relationship quotes
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- Real relationships are based on trust, understanding, freedom, chemistry, and acceptance. If even one piece of this puzzle is missing, you won’t be able to truly be happy. Unless you can be both best friends and passionate lovers, you won’t be able to build a real relationship. If you don’t trust each other, you’ll end up being miserable from being suspicious and jealous.
If you don’t understand each other and won’t be able to deliver your message, you’ll end up tired and disappointed. If you can’t accept each other the way you are, you’ll end up losing the person. Nobody’s perfect, but the relationship might be if you make the right choices.
- As soon as you become a giver, magic will happen. You can’t do calculations in a real relationship. A real relationship must contain unconditional care and love. Give the person what he (she) wants and you’ll be surprised. Don’t wait to receive something in exchange; it does not work. In order to be happy, you need to be sincere and generous with your partner with everything you have.
- A relationship can easily be destroyed by all negative emotions such as fear, jealousy, anxiety, offence, possessiveness, and anger. If you experience those feelings too often, you are on your way out. If you care about your partner and value what you have built together, stop and think. If it’s not too late, change all negative feelings to positive feelings by changing your thoughts. Having positive thoughts is as easy as having negative thoughts, so why not try?
- When you have a great relationship, don’t try to improve it. Try to hold on to what you have. You need to nurture each and every great moment as well as memories of those moments. Take one step at a time with joy and happiness and then you’ll have no limit to greatness.
- A sex based relationship will fade the moment your passion will go away. As soon as your desire is gone, you’ll have nothing to do together. If it’s just sex, don’t sugarcoat it.
- The best relationships aren’t built in one day. However, you can easily figure out from the beginning if they are going to work or not. If you constantly come across the same problems and don’t have the desire to figure them out in a psychological and perhaps a metaphysical way, you just need to quit.What is yours must come to you. If it is not yours, don’t waste your time pulling it because it will be broken anyways.
- A real, true, caring, and loving relationship is a very rare gift to have. If you are blessed to have one, be thankful.
If you have doubts about what you have, think twice. Your soul mate might be somewhere around the corner, but you are not willing to wake up and look because you are concentrating on something that is not yours. It is so easy to waste your time and sometimes even life on somebody who should’ve be with someone else; someone who doesn’t give you real happiness and prevents you from finding your true love.
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Jun
Real love stories
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Written by Lana ~ The first time I laid eyes on my ex, I thought he was the most handsome man in the world. Although after thinking about it for a minute I realized that I haven’t really seen much of the world. 
I was also chubby and in the middle of a weird phase, so we didn’t hit it of right away. We did become good friends though, and that lasted for two years, during which I lost weight, grew and dyed my hair, and changed my personality quite a bit.
Then, on a normal night of pigging out and watching movies at his house, he kissed me. I could lie and say it was the best kiss in the world, but honestly, the first thing that popped into my head was: “Really? This is what I’ve been waiting for?” I felt nothing, but since I waited for that moment for years, I let myself keep doing it for the next couple of weeks until it consumed me.
After we started officially dating, I gave him my body, and thought we would be together forever. I never imagined my best friend would deceive me in any way, and when it happened the first time, I forgave him without even thinking about it. “It was just a kiss” he said. So I continued to let myself fall deeper.
We did everything together, and I really thought he needed me, until the first time he said “I just don’t feel like having a girlfriend right now.” This break up had me crying for weeks, and on the days I thought I couldn’t take it anymore, I called him to hang out “as friends”. Of course to him it was a chance to have sex with me without dealing with commitment.
Finally I got the strength to stay away from him for a couple weeks and before I knew it he wanted me back; I took him back without giving it another thought. Throughout our three year relationship he broke up with me the same way over twenty times and every time, when he came back I gladly accepted him.
Probably because I didn’t think anyone would love me the way he did; I was wrong. Not only was I wrong about that, I was wrong about him, because when I finally got the courage to snoop through his text’s I found the answers I tried so hard to deny in my head.
Yes, he was texting other girls, including his ex girlfriend who he had slept with behind my back numerous times. I was so devastated and furious that I stormed out of his house and told him to never speak to me again. Not too long passed before he was at my door again; this time with flowers. They were so beautiful I had to take him back, but even pretty flowers couldn’t keep us together for long and subconsciously I never really forgave him.
After our third year of breaking up, making up, lying, cheating and pretending that we were okay I went on vacation. I only spent a week in Hawaii with one of my best friends but for some odd reason when I got back home I just didn’t love him anymore. He tried all his old tricks on me but they no longer lit up my heart, and I knew I had to move on.
Sometimes I got lonely and other times when he came to me crying I wanted to just hug him and tell him that everything is okay, and I love him too, but that was no longer true. It’s been years since my break up, and now it’s very hard to look back and understand why I spent so long crying when I could have been happy, but that’s just life I guess.
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Jun
Finding happiness
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Finding happiness is easy. “Yeah, right,” you might think to yourself. “If it was that easy, the world would be full of happy, smiling, problem-free people.”
How to Find Happiness – The 5 Main Steps
- 1. Analyze your unhappiness – If someone gets sick and goes to a doctor, what does she receive first during the visit? Correct, an exam. In order to know what treatment she needs, she must find out what’s causing the illness first. Let’s apply the same rule for finding your happiness. Take a pen and paper (yes, the old fashioned way), and write down a list of things that make you unhappy at this particular moment of your life. You need to list all reasons, feelings, thoughts, and desires. Also, a good idea is to write an amount of time (when did it begin bothering you?) next to each reason.
- 2. Run a reality check – list at least ten things that you are thankful for in your life today (e.g. I have a beautiful hair, I got my degree, I have a great best friend, etc.) Different things make different people thankful, but the whole point is to find out at least ten of them. Personally, I suggest to find out twenty. By the time you finish this list, you’ll already feel better.
- 3. Get an understanding of a few facts. First of all, if you want something very badly, you’ll most likely get the opposite (something you fear to get). Just trust me on this (this is a subject for a whole book, not one article). You need to “lose the importance of what you desperately want.” Just let it go and stop worrying about it. It might sound crazy, but it works. Teenagers have an interesting solution for this. They suggest to “chill.” So “chill”, and let your desperate desire go.
- 4. Plan your happiness. Write down a few lists. First list what you think will make you happy in the short term and in the long term. Drop the items that are “not up to you” from the list. For example, “I want my boyfriend to love me” – drop it from the list; you can’t do anything about it. On the other hand, “I would like to become interesting, positive, and better looking” is a great item because then you’ll become more confident and your boyfriend most likely will love you more. After you list your short term and long term goals, write down what needs to be done for each and every item in details.
- 5. Execute your plan, stay positive, smile every time you can, love yourself and the world the way it is, and remember that you are not able to control the world. The only thing you can control is what you think, how you react, and what you want. Basically, you control your own happiness. If someone or something makes you unhappy, it is your problem.
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Jun
How to forget your ex
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- 1) You have to control your thoughts and words. Every time you would like to think about your ex or talk about him (her), stop. This includes having conversations with him (her) inside your head.
- 2) If you are itching to get in contact with your ex, don’t set your mind on “I will never see/talk to him (her) again. Most of us tend to want a prohibited fruit even more. Set a timeframe, for example, three months.
- 3) Keep yourself occupied. There is one big secret to this. You have to make sure that you enjoy what you are doing. Be honest with yourself here. If whatever you are doing feels like a chore, it won’t do any good. Make a list of things that you wanted to do but never had the time to. Usually, makeovers are on the top of the list and it’s great! The better you will become, the better you will feel and as a result, better things in life will be attracted to you. Next thing you know, you care less and less about your ex. One day you’ll wake up with the thought, “ex who?”
- 4) Don’t regret anything and don’t feel guilty – it will suck your good energy. You can’t change the past and you can’t predict your future, but you can enjoy the moment. Your life is a chain of moments, so control each moment and you’ll control your life. Nothing is as sexy as a person who is in control.
- 5) Don’t believe people who say that “time is the best doctor.” Time definitely helps, but I know people who haven’t gotten over their exes for years, while their beloved exes got married, got divorced, got married again, lived happily ever after, and so on. Every time you are about to cry, remember that your ex is far probably enjoying himself now and having a great time. Why shouldn’t you?
- 6) Don’t get into a new relationship until you fully recover. Concentrate on other areas of your life. If you get involved with someone while feeling down, the entire relationship will be sick and sad. You can’t have a cheat meal while dieting, so concentrate on your looks, work, social life, etc. Remember, while you are in the process of healing, Prince Charming is not coming. But he will; just give yourself time.
- 7) Please, do not listen to people who say that there are “no good men” or “no good women.” It’s not true. There is someone for everyone; you just have to be ready, emotionally and mentally. Remember, all it takes is to meet one right person.
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Jun
Broken Heart Quotes
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- A broken heart is a reminder of all the lessons you’ve learned in your relationship. It is not the end of the world; it is just a wakeup call to actions, to a better self, to a happier life, and to a bigger and better future.~Viktoria
- Never be upset if you broke up with someone special; be thankful that you stopped something that was not meant to be. If you are not together, it means that he (she) was not really that special. A special person won’t let you feel hurt; he (she) will make you feel happy and delighted. If you still believe that he (she) was special, just let him (her) remain this way in your heart. If you really love someone, do it unconditionally, not because you want something in return.~Viktoria
- Sometimes, a broken heart is a result of obsessive feeling of possession; the combination of desire to have and fear to lose. It also might just be your hurt ego at the end of the day. Stop for a second and think twice about what you really feel. If he (she) does not want to be with you, let it go. If things do not work out – let them go. It’s like when you’re in a casino – as soon as you start losing money, you need to get up and leave or pick another table.~Viktoria
- Break ups are hard to live through. They are painful, but vital. They are part of everybody’s life. If there is a relationship, there might be a break up as well; it’s a part of life like birth and death. You need to learn how to enjoy moments of happiness. You need to learn how to find happiness in the end. Nothing is forever. If you entered a relationship, you need to accept that a break up might also be a part of it.~Viktoria
- A broken heart is an alarm that something went wrong. Instead of mar
inating yourself in pain and misery, make an assessment of what went wrong and move on as soon as you can. You think that it’s easy to say, but hard to do. It’s not true. The amount of time you will be heartbroken is totally up to you. What about your loved one? Do you honestly believe that he is sitting by a computer now and reading quotes like you? I don’t think so. Take care of yourself. Remember that you only have one life and how you choose to live it is up to you.~Viktoria
- A broken heart is a negative condition. Being heartbroken can be dangerous. Getting yourself comfortable in misery can be an entrance to a black hole that will bring more unfortunate events. If you get sick, you’ll go see a doctor right away. Don’t treat a broken heart any differently. If you got there, try to heal as soon as you can so your personal life won’t affect your work, social life, and other areas. ~Viktoria
- Getting a broken heart is ok. Letting it become permanent is not. Healing it is a must.~Viktoria
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Feb
Valentine s day facebook status
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“Valentine’s Day is a day when women want to feel special, wanted, loved, admired, and unique multiplied by a thousand times. While we all (women) understand that Valentine’s Day might be commercialized, we tremendously enjoy flowers, gifts, and attention because while men see it as waste of time and money, we see it as signs of love from our significant ones”. – Viktoria, www.BrokenHeart911.com owner- ”Warning! Attention all men, the women will be on the prowl, so if you wanna stay out of trouble, you better listen now. Today is judgment day, Today is the most dangerous day of our lives VALENTINE”S DAY. Men today we will be judged all over the world ,men will be compared and judged, it doesn’t matter what you did tester day or last year, it’s what you do tonight is what you will be judge on, so my advice is be very careful, and be on your best game, tonight, make every move a calculated move, be more romantic then you ever have been, now men we can do this, just think its only 1 day, so aim going to leave you with this, be careful and may god be with you” – music mogul who is in love. He is under the pressure from this significant one.
- “Valentine is holiday created by flower, jewelry and gift companies”, - 16 going on 30 year old guy.
- “Happy Buy Chicks Stuff…er… Valentine’s Day!
” – super married Gemini who will be bringing his wife at least 2 gifts
- “Happy Valentine’s Day” – famous Hollywood celebrity trainer
- “I finally answered the question “How many times can I mispronounce Valentines Day, Valentimes Day before my friend snaps” 5 at 3 I saw the vein pop, at 4 she made her orgasm face.” – Stand up comedian
- ” To me valentines can be everyday & not only on the 14th day of February every year if you married the right person or have the right person in your life. I am so lucky to be in this situation. Not only do I have a GREAT wife but I also have a very beautiful, healthy and bright baby girl who brings so much love to my wife and I. What more can I ask for. Happy Valentine s day to my baby girl and my wife & to you all! “ –Dedicated father and husband
- “At my house every day is Valentine’s Day… and Halloween.”- Mother of two year old
- “Hope you have a sexy day
” female from tech industry - Happy Valentines! Love and celebrate yourself, your body and your strength, with a dance party tonight!! Join me for spin class tonight at 7:30 pm at Kinetic Cycling Brentwood!!!1st Class is free, so bring your loved one and celebrate together.” – The best spin teacher
- ’Love expects no reward. Love knows no fear. Love gives — does not demand. Love imputes no motive… to love is to share and serve. ~Sivananda
Although our loved ones should be told our feelings on a consistent basis…let today be an excuse to share your thoughts and feelings that are not always expressed…” – The filmmaker - Today’s Special….Fixing a Broken Heart!!! LOL – MD posted a picture of him performing procedure
“Man it’s Valentines day wow,I hope everyone has something planned for that special someone.I find this day funny very funny because there is going to be some strange hookups going on, I’m not going to lie this is a very special day and don’t do the same stuff you did last year wow the person your with make that person happy cause no matter what that significant other is in your life for a reason,to all you single folk just do you happy V-day if you’re at Supperclub dinner ill see you there tonight peace.” – upcoming actor, R&B singer
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Feb
If you have a broken heart, Valentine’s Day might seem like a cruel joke to you. If your break up is fresh and feelings are hurt, you just have to know several things and follow a few simple rules to survive this day.
What do you need to know?
- You are not the first and not the last person who has a broken heart. Each and every person who ever has a relationship will have a broken heart at least once.
- Valentine’s Day is not a real holiday. It’s not about love; it’s about companies making money.
- Spending Valentine’s Day without a significant one is not the end of the world.
- The longer you’ll stay in a negative and tragic mood, the longer you’ll attract more unfortunate events.
- You don’t have a loss; you are going through a lesson and the sooner you learn, the sooner you’ll have a chance to meet your Prince Charming.
What NOT to do on Valentine’s Day. DO NOT:
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- Text or call your ex under any circumstances.
- Drink alcohol – you need to be totally in control of your emotions.
- Go on a random date with “whoever” – it will make you feel much worse.
- Have a one night stand with either a total stranger or a supportive male friend who’s been helping you for a while.
- Spend this day with your best friend couple who is madly in love.
- Meet your single friends in any “romantic restaurant” where you might see lots of happy couples.
- Talk about your ex and how great of a time you guys had together.
- Think that you’re the unhappiest person in the whole Universe.
- Eat ice cream from the box thinking that your nice body does not matter anymore.
What you SHOULD do:
- Control your thoughts, so your ex won’t be popping up in your mind (if you need to learn more, read the Broken Heart 911 Program).
- Spend time with positive, happy people who really love you; people who would support you emotionally without tearing your soul apart with comments about your ex.
- Do something nice to yourself – buy yourself a gift or go to some interesting fitness class or spa.
- Start thinking about your future – what makes you happy, what you really want from this life, and how you think you can get there.
- Go to sleep early – tomorrow will be another day and you’ll be able to start it fresh.
- Watch a comedy or action movie – or anything that is positive and can take your thoughts away.
- Read a self help program that will help you avoid the same mistakes in the future.
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Feb
Single on Valentine’ s Day
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If you are single on Valentine’s Day, it means different things to different people. The definition of “being happily single” has never been cancelled. Being single, self sufficient, and happy is much better than being in a dysfunctional, broken, lonely relationship.
Of course, being in a perfect relationship with your Prince Charming who you are in love with and who is crazy about you is every woman’s ultimate dream, but…let’s be realistic here. Finding “the right one” is a gift that life gives us when the time is right and we are ready. If you are reading this now and trying to figure out how to kill time on Valentine’s Day (and especially in the evening), it just means that:
- It’s not your time yet. You are not ready (even though you think you are).
- You chose freedom over commitment and are paying the price. You chose to be in charge of your life, do what you want, and not do what you don’t want. Everything has a price and a lonely Valentine’s Day can be part of it. If you are completely lonely and sad, go online and join a dating site. You will find that there lot’s of independent people whose freedom is sacred in the online dating world.
- You just broke up with someone – celebrate the endings, they are new beginnings. One year from now, you might be laughing at yourself and saying a big “thank you” to your ex for doing such a great favor for you. Life is full of surprises.
- You moved to a new city. If you don’t know many people, you have two choices. Either enjoy staying at home and doing something fun (whatever makes you happy) or get dressed and go where people
are – a restaurant, bar, gallery, shopping mall, or concert. You never know where you can meet your special one. You are not the only single in this city. How romantic would it be to meet your new love on Valentine’s Day? - You moved to a new city and you are in a long distance relationship. Well, put on something cute, pour a glass of wine, and get on video chat with your beau. However, I would really suggest doing something that is described above.
If you are single on Valentine’s Day, it’s ok. You need to have fun, celebrate your happiness, and enjoy yourself.
Being single is about choices you’ve made in the past and whether you’ll remain single in the future totally depends on your choices now. Make a choice that is good for you and we’ll see – maybe you’ll be reading our newest program about the ultimate dating secrets
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Feb
Single Awareness Day
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Broken heart? Here is a guide on how to survive Single Awareness Day
How do I get over a broken heart? If you are in the process of figuring that out, then Valentine’s Day aka Single Awareness Day probably makes you sad, sick in your stomach, and awfully depressed. You probably think about how miserable it would feel being by yourself while many happy couples are enjoying each other’s company. I’ve got news for you. The importance of Valentine’s Day is overestimated, overrated, and totally commercialized. Yes, it’s nice to have a day of love but if it is real love, why should it be celebrated for only one day? People deserve to be loved and treated nicely every single day of their lives. I’m not sure about eating too much chocolate or love cupcakes, but giving flowers and gifts is a must in each healthy relationship.
Valentine’s Day is the third largest sales day for florists, jewelry, gift companies, and restaurants after Black Friday and Cyber Monday! Therefore, all those symbols of love in each and every internet and TV ad are not about making you feeling special but about companies making healthy profits.
If you have a broken heart, there are 7 things to do on Single Awareness Day
- First thing in the morning, type (or write) at least 5-7 things about your life that you are thankful
for. Try to stretch it up to 10. There is a great chance that at the end of this exercise you’ll become thankful for being single. - Being single is your present relationship status, not a permanent diagnosis. This is a temporary condition that can always be improved. Be aware that there are many ways to meet great people – your future is in the future.
- Avoid visiting places where you might see many couples. While many of them might not be even so happy together, it would be better for you to stay away.
- Avoid spending time in a “men haters” club. Spinning negativity with unhappy and angry females and talking about how bad men are won’t make you feel better. Men are not bad; you just had an unfortunate experience. The fact that your past relationship (or two or three) did not work, does not prove that you’ll be single forever. It just means that your time is not now.
- Remember, you are not alone! There are millions of people who are Single, Aware, and Happy.
- There is a price for everything and sometimes being by yourself is a way to pay for your freedom – the ability to do what you want or not to do what you don’t want.
- If you think that this day is about love, then go ahead and spoil yourself the way you would like to be spoiled. There is nothing wrong with treating yourself and who cares that you did it for you?
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