Speed Dating Tips

Our life is going in a fast speed, so speed dating can be a great part of it. For some reason, most people who have experience with speed dating really hate it from the bottom of their hearts because they find it frustrating and not really effective.

We suggest that you look at speed dating differently.

There are SPEED DATING TIPS  that can help you make you speed dating fun.

• Do not have any expectations while going on the speed dating event. Treat it as another life experience

• Remember, people who you’ll meet at the speed dating event might and will be different from the “Prince or Princess Charming” that you imagined. Control your facial expressions.

• If you find someone who you really like at the speed dating event, it will be an exception, not a regular rule, so just enjoy your ride.

• Even thought you might not find “the one”, you can meet new people who might happen to be “fifth tier” – meaning you can meet people, become friends, and they might introduce you to their friends who will introduce you to their friends…You never know what circle your “One” will belong to.

• Prepare your “elevator speech” about yourself in advance; something that you can say in 10 seconds that would be descriptive, fun, and straight to the point.

• Don’t bring up your past even thought it was absolutely exceptional. Your future is in the future. If you want to talk about your past, you should go to a shrink counseling session, not to speed dating event.

• Don’t be too specific about what you are looking for. (THIS MIGHT NOT EXIST AT ALL:) You know nothing about the person you are talking to, so try to stay within general topics.

• Prepare a list of questions; make your life easier, let another person talk. This way, you’ll get as much information as you can in order to decide if you would like to see this person again

• Don’t use a strong fragrance – someone can have an allergic reaction, so instead of a potential romance or friendship you can cause an allergy.

• Keep your distance and don’t invade someone’s personal space. No leaning and touching; something that might seem intimate and charming for you, might be major turn off for another person.

• If someone does not want to give you their number or email address, don’t insist. Usually a few seconds is enough time to sense potential chemistry. So, if the answer is no, just move on.

• If you don’t have a definite “no” feeling, give it a chance; you never know. The person who didn’t quite impress you on speed dating might happen to be an absolutely charming and fabulous when you get together without fifty other people and a ticking clock.

• Clear your mood, so you feel only positive emotions. As soon as you feel something negative like anger, frustration, tiredness, jealousy, or anything else, stop and restart your mood. You can’t be attractive to other people if you feel down.

• Dress and groom yourself properly. You might be the kindest, funniest sweetheart, but your appearance makes the first impression and the first impression is the most important.

• Go fearless and careless. This is the best condition that makes magic happen.

• If the speed dating event happens at a bar or restaurant, make sure that you control your drinking because what might seem like charming speech for you, might seem like total turn off tipsy talk for someone else.