
Sherry Argov Quotes
- Once a man begins to lose respect for a woman because she is willing to subtly devalue herself, he will also lose the desire to get closer to her.
- There are two types of sexy. The woman who is obviously trying to be sexy. Then there is the woman who isn’t trying to be sexy – she just is. Most guys find the second one to be much sexier.
- What would happen if you let him know from day one that you re willing to bend over backward? He’d think you’re desperate, and he’d want to see just how far you’d be willing to bend. It’s human nature.
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- Overcompensating or being too eager to please will lessen a man’s respect; it will give the kiss of death to his attraction, and it will put a time limit on the relationship
- Women are conditioned to give themselves away. I have yet to see a men’s magazine with an article on how to cook a woman a four-course meal. The closest they ever come to a recipe is in the bodybuilder section, when they tell guys to mix up a few egg whites with some wheat germ.
- When you react emotionally, it gives him a feeling of control. And if you react emotionally frequently, over time he will come to see you as less of a mental challenge. If he can’t predict how you’ll always react, you remain a challenge.
- A man will always want what he can’t have. When a man meets a woman and she seems nonchalant, it becomes a challenge for him to win her affections.
- What women need to understand is that when a man considers a woman to be a prize, looks have very little to do with it. In the above example, it was a simple mind trick that goes like this; She acted like a prize, and then a funny thing happened. He completely forgot who he was looking at.
- Never assume you are not attractive enough, and therefore you have to overcompensate or chase a man. Taste is subjective. One man’s “ugly” is another man’s “beautiful”. The first date is about looks. When he falls in love, it’s about your attitude. It’s about whether you can hold your own. Which is all about how you hold yourself.

- The issue is not whether you turn him on; it’s whether he stays turned on after he has been satisfied. This is the key.
- It started when he was a kid. When he received a toy for Christmas that he didn’t even ask for, he played with it for a while five minutes. The toy he cherished was the one he bought with two months’ allowance that sat on the top shelf in the toy store. He couldn’t reach it but went in to look at it all the time.
- To give a man too much reassurance too soon is the same as over watering a plant. It kills it.
- Women need to understand that men love the “thrill of the chase” and are highly competitive. They like racing cars, engaging in athletics, and hunting. They like to fix things, to figure things out, to pursue.
- ….a man wants something he’ll go after it, and going after it makes him want it even more. If he doesn’t succeed right away, he starts to crave it. It captures his interest and excites his imagination.
- …men often admitted that if the sex was too easy to get, it was not that great. It’s like blackjack. If he wins big right up front, he’s done for the night.
- The objective while dating is not to be mean. It’s to give him the thrill of the chase by taking it slowly and letting him be a man. It’s easy to understand his nature because it is our human nature, too.
- Whenever you make him feel as thought he has to see you, it will feel like work. When it’s not an obligation to see you, the very same thing will feel like pleasure.
- Men like things that are difficult. They like to drive stick-shift automobiles. They like to jump out of airplanes, and hey like to climb mountains. They like to do the impossible. Therefore, when he has to go out of his way to see you, he is actually happier. I will not feel like work for him.
- Eventually you won’t want to be around her because you won’t feel as thought she is contributing to your friendship. That’s how a guy feels when you are too dependent on him. It becomes a burden if you lean on him too much. He is only human, and he has his own problems. Show him that you’ll be an equal partner, which means that you also have something to contribute.
- He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Only then will he perceive you as an equal partner.
- This is also why giving him space is so important. It makes you look proud rather then desperate. It enables you to remain a challenge indefinitely. Why? You chose to be with him. You didn’t need to be. As a person, you feel you are complete with him or without him.
- In general, there are two things a woman does to encourage a man to fall madly in love after he is attracted to her. First, she appeals to his imagination, sexually. Second, she waits a little while before consummating the relationship, sexually.
- What men don’t want women to know is that, almost immediately, they put women into one of two categories: “good time only” or “worthwhile”. And the minute he slides you into that “good time only” category, you’ll almost never come back out. It’s not that the bitch is slutty or more conservative – it’s that she demands that the treat her as thought she is “worthwhile”. And, more often that not, it means revealing her sexuality a little at a time. With her demeanor, the bitch is subtly “driving the train”.

- The doormat is more likely to be perceived as a pushover sexually because she’s more likely to sleep with a man for the wrong reasons – and much too soon. It has nothing to do with whether she appears conservative. Whether her style is long skirts and a ponytail and she attends napkin-folding class or she wears sexy clothes and seems like a party girl – the outcome can be the same. In either scenario, if she has sex with a man because she feels she needs to do so in order to win him, he’ll sense it and begin to lose respect for her.
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my bf and I have been fighting like crazy lately. He can’t seem to stop with the dating sight thing and constantly talks to other girls on it’s or message them to flirt and set up a meeting but supposedly never goes. He swathe does it to boost his ego. What can I do or say to put a stop to this and make him only long for me not 1000 others?
Jen, if you want my honest opinion, I think you should break up with him. If you’re tolerating this kind of bullshit (buying into the idea that he’s boosting his ego by going on dating sites) it’s clear he doesn’t respect you, your intelligence or your feelings. And if he doesn’t respect you, how on earth can you expect him to long for only you?
You obviously care about him a lot; you want to be his number one and your emotions are blinding you. But it’s clear to me, even from this brief little blurb, that this feeling isn’t mutual. You deserve someone who isn’t going to be jerking you around.
Dump his ass. Not because he’ll come to his senses (he might) but because you expect and know you deserve better.
Good luck!
you just need to break up with him, don’t let him play with you like that.
You can’t put an end to this. Only he can do that. The most important thing you can do is leave him. He does not value you. The fact that you are still with him knowing that he does this to you, tells him that you do not respect yourself. He will take you for granted as long as you allow him to. The heartache is not worth it.
hello everyone.. I come here with a broken heart. I will start my story.
I met this guy, the first time I saw him I knew this guy would be something. I was right because after seeing him couple of times I began to felt I am so attracted to him, day by day the feeling grew bigger and bigger. He seemed to like me too, we both enjoying each other companion. Until one day he told me that he already has a lover and that if we couldn’t meet then that means his lover forbid him. After that I was so sad but the broken part is not yet. We still Texting everyday and met few days after, seeing movie and had a nice time.
Then this shocking day happened. I texted him but he didn’t respond all day, I called him but no answer. Finally he texted back at the end of the day saying “I am sorry, my lover forbid me to reply your text, sorry”….
My heart broke into million pieces, tears dropped down and just can’t believe what just happened. I would never could see him ever again, he would never reply my text anymore. I will do anything to see him once again God! I love him, I fell too soon I know, but my heart wasn’t intending to fall the first time we met, it was just like a blind date, also he didn’t tell me he has lover when we first met.
I will continue, at the same night his lover sent message to my facebook saying that “I am his lover, don’t text or call him anymore”. How the heck his lover know my facebook???
That’s my broken heart story, don’t know how long to wait till it healed, right now I am so devastated. Thanks to allowing me to write
Jen – your being a doormat, your enabling him treat you like this because your still with him…. do the female race some pride and move on.
you got to boost his ego!!
all men need to be wooed, and put on a pedastal by their women. compliment him, kiss him. tell him things you like about him. its your job to build his self eesteem and make him your night and shining armor. stop fighting with him, hes telling blatantly telling you what he needs. alll men do! praise him and i garantee you hell turn around. mine did!
I just recently broke up with my ex. He’s in his graduating year in college while I have been working for almost a year already. He’s soooooo frugal to spend for me but he rather spend on sex or stuff for him! He wants to go to another country and does not know if he can do Long Distance. Me: OBSESSED that I want to keep him, tried to prove that I am worth the distance by doing EVERYTHING he would like in a girl… One day, he just dumped me without any signs that he would. I got so shocked when he said, “you are not my priority anymore. I love my career more than you.” Out of the blue…
Damn… I thought giving my all would convince him to be with me… I think i was doing it wrong…
This guy and I have been talking for a month. Met his family and friends. Then one day he goes into his “shell”. My family and friends could tell he liked me but then when I tried contacting him a few times, I eventually gave up. Haven’t heard from him in awhile. Not sure what to do. I’ve got my life together but he doesn’t.
Men love the chase. If he really liked you, he never would have treated you this way. Forget him. Don’t waste your time even thinking of him.
i am currently not in good terms with my boyfriend.. I know that our relationship wont be just like before since im still studying now while he is working.. we have grown so much apart and I just dont want that to happen… I just cant believe that he doesnt love me that much just like before.
I have been together with the lovliest guy for 4 years…he is truly a good person he is emotional yet manly and I have always loved that in him and he has always respected me until recently he has been treating me like im worthless..by talking in rude ways to me infront his mother and telling me break up with me i do not want to be with you i want to see my boys. Thats all he wants to do see his boys although i have done so much for this guy and i want to make it work he constantly avoids talks. Yesterday i just left and i thought this is it i cant do it anymore and he came after me with the car and picked me up and started driving really fast. He wasx going mental..i have never seen him that way i did not understand who this person was. He told me he has been like this becase i contacted my ex 2 months ago to check how he was doing..I thought he had forgiven me but he still had it in his mind and he has been rude to me ignoring me screaming at me really making me feel like i am a piece of sh*&t.. I understand he is hurt by what i have done but does it justify him treating me like this? Just as loyalty is a big thing for him respect is for me.. I dont know whether to end it and move on or should i forgive him? He also says i have become clingy and obsessive and that he wants to chase me he does not want to feel like i am a job. I used to be so strong and independent when i was back home in sweden and he would constantly be chasing me i had my life together now I have moved to London to study but also be with him and i have become so weak i dont have my friends family or anything here :,( i do not know how to find that independent tanisha again…i think i have relied too much on him…i have ordered “why men love bitches” book but is a book really going to solve everything? i just feel really down
dont know who to talk to so im writing here
very helpful
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ahhhhhh I hope is not too late to put this on foot. Girls ur all right