• “He’s not thinking about settling down, having children, or building a home with anyone until he’s got all three of those things in sync. I’m not saying that he has had to have made it, but at least he has to be on track to making it.

• “But for us men? It’s everything. After we’ve attained that, it’s critical that we can show off what we get for being number one. We have to be able to flaunt it, and women have to be able to see it – otherwise, what’s the use of being number one?”

• “Because in his world, he’s being judged by other men, based on who he is, what he does, and how much he makes. That affects his mood. If you know he’s not where he wants to be or not on track for being where he wants to be, then his mood swings at the house will make more sense to you.”

• “So if this is on his mind, and he hasn’t lined up the who he is, the what he does, and the how much he makes in the way that he sees fit, he can’t possibly be to you what he wants to be. Which means that you can’t really have the man you want. He can’t sit around talking with you, or dream about marriage and family, if his mind is on how to make money, how to get a better position, how to be the kind of man he needs to be for you.”

• “The way you can help him get there is to help him focus on his dream, see the vision, and implement his plan”

• “That’s a woman’s love – it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance. And this is exactly how you all expect us men to love you in return. Ask any woman what kind of love she wants from a man, and it will sound something like this: I want him to be humble and smart, fun and romantic, sensitive and gentle, and, above all, supportive. I want him to look in my eyes and tell me I’m beautiful and that I complete him. I want a man who is vulnerable enough to cry when he is hurting, who will introduce me to his mother with a smile on his face, who loves children and animals, and who is willing to change diapers and wash dishes and do it all without me having to ask. And if he has a nice body and lot of money and expensive shoes without scuffs, and would be great, too. Amen. Well, I’[m here to tell you that expecting that kind of love – that perfection from a man is unrealistic. That’s right, I said it- it’s not gonna happen, no way, no how. Because a man’s love isn’t like a woman’s love. Don’t get it confused, now- I’m not saying that we’re not capable of loving. I’m just saying that a man’s love is different – much more simple, direct, and probably a little harder to come by.”
• “His love is still love, though. It’s just different from the love that women give and , in a lot of cases, want.”
• “If your man loves you, he’s willing to tell anybody and everybody, “Look, man, this is my woman” or “this is my girl”, “my baby’s mama”, or “my lady”. In other words, you will have a title – an official one that far extends beyond “this is my friend” or “this is_______(insert your name here)”. That’s because a man who has placed you in the most special part of his heart – the man who truly has feelings for you – will give you a title. That title is his way of letting everyone within the sound of his voice know that he’s proud of being with you, and that he has plans for you.”
• “If he introduces you as his “friend”, or by your name, have no doubt that’s all you are. He doesn’t think any more of you than that. In your heart of hearts, ladies, you all know this.”
• “So, if you’ve been dating a guy for at least ninety days and you’ve never met his mother, you don’t go to church together, you haven’t been around his family or his friends, and he took you to a networking/job/social function and introduced you by your name, then you are not in his plans – he doesn’t see you in his future. But the minute he assigns a title – the moment he lays claim to you in front of people who mean something to him in his life, whether it’s his boy, his sister, or his boss – that’s the minute you know your man is making a statement”.
• “If a man is in a position of being questioned about whether he’s able to provide, financially and otherwise, for the ones he loves, you might as well drop-kick his ego into an early grave. The more he can provide for his woman and his kids, the bigger and more alive he feels. Sounds simplistic, but that is the reality”.
• “And a man who truly loves you would never make you ask for money for necessities – he would make sure that you need and mostly want for nothing, because every pat on the back he gets for bringing more money into the house, every kiss he gets for handling over cash for school clothes and supplies and toys, every bit of appreciation he gets for keeping the lights and cable on, boosts his prowess as a man. That’s why if he’s a real man, he will always put buying something for himself far below his responsibility to provide for his family. His need for another set of golf clubs or expensive shoes or a fancy car or anything else men like to spend their money on will pale in comparison to providing for loved ones, because those golf clubs can’t make him square his shoulders the way true appreciation from a woman can. Consequently, everything he does is going to be about trying to make sure the woman he loves has what she needs”.
• “And if a man can’t provide, then he doesn’t feel like a man, so he flees to escape the horrible feelings of inadequacy or he’s going to bury those feelings in drugs and alcohol.”
• “Of course, some men simply refuse to share the money in their pockets with their women. AS some rap songs and hip-hop magazines tell you, these men feel they’re being “played” if they provide anything of monetary value to the opposite sex. Some men even label any and every woman who expects her intended to provide for her the very handy, decisively ugly phrase “gold digger”.
• “I’m here to tell you, though, ladies, that the term “gold digger” is one of the traps we men set to keep you off our money trail; we created that term for you so that we can have all of our money and still get everything we want from you without u asking for or expecting this very basic, instinctual responsibility that men all over the world are obligated to assume and embrace”.
• “Know this: It is your right to expect that a man will pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or whatever else he has to pay for in exchange for your time”
• “When a man truly loves you, anybody who says, does, suggests, or even thinks about doing something offensive to you stands the risk of being obliterated. Your man will destroy anything and everything in his path to make sure that whoever disrespected you pays for it. This is his nature”.

What do you need to know?

• You are not the first and not the last person who has a broken heart. Each and every person who ever has a relationship will have a broken heart at least once.
• Valentine’s Day is not a real holiday. It’s not about love; it’s about companies making money.
• Spending Valentine’s Day without a significant one is not the end of the world.
• The longer you’ll stay in a negative and tragic mood, the longer you’ll attract more unfortunate events.
• You don’t have a loss; you are going through a lesson and the sooner you learn, the sooner you’ll have a chance to meet your Prince Charming.

What NOT to do on Valentine’s Day.  DO NOT:

• Text or call your ex under any circumstances.
• Drink alcohol – you need to be totally in control of your emotions.
• Go on a random date with “whoever” – it will make you feel much worse.
• Have a one night stand with either a total stranger or a supportive male friend who’s been helping you for a while.
• Spend this day with your best friend couple who is madly in love.
• Meet your single friends in any “romantic restaurant” where you might see lots of happy couples.
• Talk about your ex and how great of a time you guys had together.
• Think that you’re the unhappiest person in the whole Universe.
• Eat ice cream from the box thinking that your nice body does not matter anymore.

What you SHOULD do:

• Control your thoughts, so your ex won’t be popping up in your mind (if you need to learn more, read the Broken Heart 911 Program).
• Spend time with positive, happy people who really love you; people who would support you emotionally without tearing your soul apart with comments about your ex.
• Do something nice to yourself – buy yourself a gift or go to some interesting fitness class or spa.
• Start thinking about your future – what makes you happy, what you really want from this life, and how you think you can get there.
• Go to sleep early – tomorrow will be another day and you’ll be able to start it fresh.
• Watch a comedy or action movie – or anything that is positive and can take your thoughts away.
• Read a self help program that will help you avoid the same mistakes in the future.

Of course, being in a perfect relationship with your Prince Charming who you are in love with and who is crazy about you is every woman’s ultimate dream, but…let’s be realistic here. Finding “the right one” is a gift that life gives us when the time is right and we are ready. If you are reading this now and trying to figure out how to kill time on Valentine’s Day (and especially in the evening), it just means that:

• It’s not your time yet. You are not ready (even though you think you are).
• You chose freedom over commitment and are paying the price. You chose to be in charge of your life, do what you want, and not do what you don’t want. Everything has a price and a lonely Valentine’s Day can be part of it. If you are completely lonely and sad, go online and join a dating site. You will find that there lot’s of independent people whose freedom is sacred in the online dating world.
• You just broke up with someone – celebrate the endings, they are new beginnings. One year from now, you might be laughing at yourself and saying a big “thank you” to your ex for doing such a great favor for you. Life is full of surprises.
• You moved to a new city. If you don’t know many people, you have two choices. Either enjoy staying at home and doing something fun (whatever makes you happy) or get dressed and go where people are – a restaurant, bar, gallery, shopping mall, or concert. You never know where you can meet your special one. You are not the only single in this city. How romantic would it be to meet your new love on Valentine’s Day?
• You moved to a new city and you are in a long distance relationship. Well, put on something cute, pour a glass of wine, and get on video chat with your beau. However, I would really suggest doing something that is described above.

If you are single on Valentine’s Day, it’s ok. You need to have fun, celebrate your happiness, and enjoy yourself.

Being single is about choices you’ve made in the past and whether you’ll remain single in the future totally depends on your choices now. Make a choice that is good for you and we’ll see – maybe you’ll be reading our newest program about the ultimate dating secrets

Broken heart? Here is a guide on how to survive Single Awareness Day

How do I get over a broken heart? If you are in the process of figuring that out, then Valentine’s Day aka Single Awareness Day probably makes you sad, sick in your stomach, and awfully depressed. You probably think about how miserable it would feel being by yourself while many happy couples are enjoying each other’s company. I’ve got news for you. The importance of Valentine’s Day is overestimated, overrated, and totally commercialized. Yes, it’s nice to have a day of love but if it is real love, why should it be celebrated for only one day? People deserve to be loved and treated nicely every single day of their lives. I’m not sure about eating too much chocolate or love cupcakes, but giving flowers and gifts is a must in each healthy relationship.

Valentine’s Day is the third largest sales day for florists, jewelry, gift companies, and restaurants after Black Friday and Cyber Monday! Therefore, all those symbols of love in each and every internet and TV ad are not about making you feeling special but about companies making healthy profits.

If you have a broken heart, there are 7 things to do on Single Awareness Day

•  First thing in the morning, type (or write) at least 5-7 things about your life that you are thankful for. Try to stretch it up to 10. There is a great chance that at the end of this exercise you’ll become thankful for being single.
•  Being single is your present relationship status, not a permanent diagnosis. This is a temporary condition that can always be improved. Be aware that there are many ways to meet great people – your future is in the future.
• Avoid visiting places where you might see many couples. While many of them might not be even so happy together, it would be better for you to stay away.
• Avoid spending time in a “men haters” club. Spinning negativity with unhappy and angry females and talking about how bad men are won’t make you feel better. Men are not bad; you just had an unfortunate experience.  The fact that your past relationship (or two or three) did not work, does not prove that you’ll be single forever. It just means that your time is not now.
• Remember, you are not alone! There are millions of people who are Single, Aware, and Happy.
• There is a price for everything and sometimes being by yourself is a way to pay for your freedom – the ability to do what you want or not to do what you don’t want.
• If you think that this day is about love, then go ahead and spoil yourself the way you would like to be spoiled. There is nothing wrong with treating yourself and who cares that you did it for you? 

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Stood up means that your date not only did not show up, but also did not bother to explain why it happened. Of course, there were no apologies either. The false promises to go somewhere or do something together are considered stood up as well. We are not talking about waiting for a person at the time he was supposed to pick you up and his phone was off.

Stood up means a no show at the promised and scheduled time without any explanations.

Stood up is the first step towards your broken heart!

Now, let’s make it crystal clear.

If a man gets stood up by a woman there can only be three reasons:

1) Something terrible happened – you should call her and ask what happened.

2) The woman is absolutely not interested in this man and does not care to the level that she won’t communicate with him at all. If a woman is not interested, there is nothing you can do except either step back, wait and pray, or find another woman.

3) The woman has been hurt by this man and this is her little (or not so little) revenge plan. If a woman is hurt or upset, then you really need to come up with a strategy for her forgiveness, but that’s a separate topic.

If a woman gets stood up by a man, there might be too many reasons, but the main two would be:

1) Disrespect – he simply does not care enough to call and explain.

2) Fear – he knows that he is wrong, but he does not want to go through the explanation process, so he develops an “ostrich attitude”, putting his head into the sand and pretending that he cannot be seen.

What is the solution? The solution is simple. Are you familiar with the “done once” rule? All people are creatures of habits. If someone did something once, then he will do it again.

Therefore, if a man disrespected you once, then he will do it again.

You are the one who has to choose between the pleasure of spending time with this man under his conditions or respecting yourself and not letting anybody treat you like a doormat.

I advise you to listen to him once and if he will do it again, then you need to move on unless you are fine with being stood up on weekly basis. If your man does the same disrespectful things to you over and over again, then he is the wrong man for you. There are lots of available men and all it takes is to just find one.

If you believe that you will be able to change your man, then I have news for you. The only age when you can change a man is when he is in diapers.

The way your man behaves is his choice and there is nothing you can to change his choice. The only thing you can do is make your own choice that will be good for you. Moving forward with your life will be the best possible choice because you have only one life which is absolutely precious. You deserve to be happy each and every moment of your life.

Being stood up is another form of experience that people get. There is no such a thing as bad experience. According to a Chinese proverb, bad experience is an opportunity in working clothes.

And when you meet your Mr. Right-For-You, you will recognize him immediately because he won’t make you feel sad or worried.

Move on and let Mr. False Promise/No Show worry and wonder where you are now. There will be other women in his life to be stood up. If you are a lady with self respect and self confidence, you won’t join them.

Men often take women’s caring, sweetness, and kindness for a weakness…big mistake!

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Facebook has fouled the dating world a whole lot. You have to ask a lot of questions when you are reading someone’s profile: Is this information a true representation of the person or an online avatar of what makes them look the best?  The anonymity of the internet has given people the courage to write anything. Self doubt coupled with the freedom to develop an online avatar of themselves has caused many an uncomfortable first date. Confidence in yourself and being real about yourself online is a major component of being successful in general. Being overly revealing is also a bain to your success. “Does everyone really need to know this factoid?” is a heavy question that you need to ask when making a profile.

Humans are inquisitive by nature. Facebook is like stalker heroine. I find grand irony in the fact that Zuckerberg ended up having a horribly invasive stalker in his life. With all good things comes a down side. The reconnecting with old friends, family, and former coworkers is great and its effect on freedom to seek information in repressive regimes has propagated freedom all over the globe.  Despite all the relationships that it has destroyed,  all the Facebook bullying, drunken booty calls, and breakfast menu updates, the freedom it has allowed and the democracy it has promoted is phenomenal.

With all of this said, I can easily assume that Facebook is most likely one of the leading factors in fractured relationships (and broken heart reason). Facebook has so many uses: self promotion, business promotion, informed living, true relationship building, and faux importance building. If you are interested in a person or in the early stages of dating, then you need to stay off their page or limit the depth of which you are digging, especially if they are using their page for business or personal promotion. You will be driven insane with assumptions regarding why this person is contacting them or whose status they have liked. ‘Age: number of friends’ ratio is important. If they are 18-25:500-700 friends are normal, and for their age group they are adept at Facebook and grew up with social networking. Stalking and liking most of their statuses is not as faux pa. If they are 25-35:200-400 friends can be normal but Facebook stalking is less accepted. 35-40:150-250 is normal and Facebook stalking may turn them off quickly. This is the ‘but’ and it’s a big one.  If you see a person that exceeds these numbers and has no interest in self promotion of services, ideals, products, or business then they may be friend collectors and sorting through all of their contacts will drive you battier than trying to decipher the meanings of the symbolism in the TV series “Lost” or trying to decipher the drunken text of your philosophy student friend. Get to know the person, and then their profile will make more sense, if any at all.

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Our world has changed and we have changed how we seek love and how we define love itself.  Everything has a metamorphosis and has to evolve to be relevant.  Dating did not even exist a couple centuries ago.  Courtship was the most prevalent form of finding a mate.  Everyone was vetted by the family and there was little contact while separate from a chaperone.  Some may say that this is impossible in today’s modern dating climate.  I actually know someone who went through the courtship ritual and married not too long ago.   Arranged marriages still happen in certain countries such India. India’s approach to matchmaking is totally different than mostly any other place.  Professional Indian women approach dating as if they are looking for business partner, they see the early stages of finding a date from a purely intellectual perspective.  They look over resumes of the men that they are interested and evaluate them for genetics, earning potential and other criteria.

Attraction has many different levels:  physical, chemical, emotional, genetic, fiscal, and intellectual.  The only difference for most people is how they prioritize these elements.  Everyone is different, and thus the complexity of finding a mate.  The Indian approach varies but could be weighted in this order: Intellectual, fiscal, genetic, physical, chemical, and then emotional.  This is based on culture, and although many are appalled that someone would consider this manner of mate selection. This is their manner and it in no way effects you unless you apart of the process.  We must respect this.

Individualism is the unique trait that makes mankind an amalgam of eclectic personalities.  You have to understand this to know that stereotypes are a starter point but not the rule.   This is where the algorithm of the dating sites can go wrong.  A participant in internet dating is mainly intellectual exercise.  This is why the success rate of successful coupling for internet sites is so low.  The lack of personal interaction makes it harder for us to find our true mate.  Interpersonal chemistry is the key point to a successful relationship.  Many things in history looked good on paper but when put into practice they failed miserably; the Hindenburg, the titanic, or Sarah Palin’s attempt to garner votes from the African American vote through learning ebonics.  On the other hand many things that no one thought would work, were astronomical success.  Just because someone misrepresented themselves on their profile to cover what they thought was their shortcomings, doesn’t mean that you won’t like the actual person.   Low self esteem doesn’t mean that this person doesn’t have great potential.  Many people just need someone to believe in them, so that they can achieve their true potential.

Idealism is one of the major inhibitors for a person’s dating success.  Many people spend so much mental energy sculpting what they think is their ideal mate.   This exercise is easy to get caught up in and detrimental to finding a mate.  What we think we want and what we need can be totally different.  This is aggravated when you are asked all those questions on those dating sites.   Depending on your state of mind and your past experience with those issues; can change how we answer.   A bad experience with a person that holds the traits or habits will make you think that even though you may have liked those things before, you no longer do because of your past experience.   This is when you have to do some true soul searching to decide if you dislike the action or the person that soured you to this.  This is when our weighting of stereotypes can shut you off from an entire segment of people. Example:  I dated a lawyer and they were self absorbed, needy, was a cheater and an abuser. When you meet the next lawyer who you might be attracted to, then your past experience hampers this possible relationship.

Expectations are heavy in new relationships.  Men and women think differently and desire some of the same things but also function differently.  Shared interests are a tad overrated.  This is another place that algorithmic dating sites fail.   If you had plugged my parents into one of the modern dating websites, the chances would have been better to win the lottery than them to be paired together.  They had very few shared interests other than each other.  I saw my father joyfully do things with my mother that he would have never choose to do on his own because he wanted to do things with her.   Every action my father ever did in his life was to benefit her and thus benefit their coupling.  She stood by and cared for him through a six year battle with cancer, and they had over thirty years of happiness together.   They were even a result of a blind date orchestrated by my mother’s aunt.

The information age has so many on overload and knowing to much about the person or knowing to much of what a person thinks you need to know can be bad for dating.  Sharing interests is important on some level of chemistry, but not the defining marker of compatibility.  It is easy to assume that since someone only watches reality shows, and reads frivolous novels that they have a lower intellect.  However do you consider that their job is overly intellectual, and on some level boring so they escape into to other’s drama and need to power down the thinker and just enjoy watching odd people acting stupid.  It is also easy to assume that since all their shows are intellectual and all their books are deep and provocative, but again people have the choose to paint themselves as they please.   They may say that they love the “Big Bang Theory”, and their intellect could be geographically closer to “The Jersey Shores”.

If you put a lot of weight on their interest then when you talk to them in person, casually bring up your shared interests.  Passion will arise if they really like them.  They will have interesting stories and fun factoids.   So many have caught people in profile pimping, when you casually bring up a shared interest and they have no real interest.   Again not a reason to write them off get to know the person because many people have passion paranoia:  “if she knows I have a enormous collections of gnomes then she will never like me, but if I don’t tell her then she will not get me one for my birthday” or “If he knows that I like ‘clown on midget’ porn, he will think I am a nut…I wonder if he has likes oversized shoes”.  Although these are extremely funny examples, still substitute your fetish qualm or oddity and see if they are really a deal breaker or a nuance that makes you different but not weird.   When you have a perceived weirdosity then play a drunken game of truth or dare and go with it.

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Facebook ruins relationships – this fact is sad, but true. A broken heart logo can be incorporated in multiple profiles; as a matter of fact it would be great for the statistics.

The contemporary puzzle of dating and relationships is complicated enough to put it together and make it work. With pieces that don’t fit, get broken, or belong to different puzzles, it’s hard to do. Facebook provides a great opportunity to take dating and relationship complications to the next level.

Keeping your hand on your ex’s pulse, fishing for a new romance in someone else’s pond, flirting with someone’s fiancée, boyfriend, or husband (girlfriend, wife), checking her ex’s new flame and his (her) surroundings, making someone jealous, etc. This is just the beginning of the list of real activities.

With 500 million Facebook users where the average user has about 130 friends, 250 million people log on every day. 48% of 18-34 year olds check Facebook when they wake up, with 28% doing so before even getting out of bed. Over 700 billion minutes a month are spent on Facebook*.

Facebook has become a home for teenagers and a playground for adults. While teens like to share each and every action with “puppy joy” and innocent smiles on their faces, adults tend to use new toys more strategically.

Facebook is the new CNN for personal use where people can create and deliver their own information and news to their acquaintance circle. Of course, many serious people use Facebook for business; no doubt about it, but in the world of dating, relationships, break ups, and broken hearts, Facebook has become one of the most powerful weapons that is used constantly used.

With 46,256,040 (18.49%) males and 57,481,100 females (54.03%) over 18+ years old, there are 19,670,180 (18.49%) singles, 13,106,220 (12.32%) in a relationship, 2,833,280 (2.66%) engaged, and 30,761,820 (28.91%) married.**

Can you imagine how huge the field for strategic conscious and subconscious manipulations really is?

5 Ways People Use Facebook in the Dating World

1. Stay informed about their exes.

The amount of people constantly checking the pages of their exes is scary. Tons of beautiful pictures where happy people are having fun, in reality, are posted with one simple purpose – to get the attention of one specific person and make him (her) jealous or show that he (she) is not missed anymore. While people constantly and start new relationships all of the time, the power of exes is underestimated. It takes at least one rebound relationship (sometimes more) to forget about that special person.

2. “To Facebook” new flames.

Facebook has become the new Google for getting information (use the information together mindfully, and you will be almost trained for a career as an FBI agent). You can learn a lot by reading someone’s profile and interests, as well as checking out his (her) friends, statuses, and pictures. The compete list of favorite movies and music will give you an extended insight on his (her) character. You don’t need an advanced degree in psychology to figure out their personality.

3. To communicate with someone indirectly.

Sure, women do it more often than men, but women are extremely creative. If wo men apply the same amount of creativity and dedication that they apply to dating and relationships to their jobs and studies, America probably wouldn’t be in the current economy crisis.

We all know examples of a girl who would spend money on shopping, doing her hair, and makeup, going out to some events only to put her picture on Facebook where she has 500 friends she could care less about, but…there is that one  particular person she is in love with. So she would jump through all those hoops with “Facebook self marketing” just to get his attention.

4. To destroy someone else’s happiness by discussing sensitive topics with people in front of thousands of other people.

5. Reaching people you wouldn’t be able to reach without having access to Facebook.

THANK YOU, FACEBOOK, FOR EASY WAY OF FINDING THE TRUTH…IT WON’T BE POSSIBLE WITHOUT YOU!

*   http://www.digitalbuzzblog.com/facebook-statistics-stats-facts-2011/

** http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=4

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Another time…there is always another time but all people understand that in reality there might not be another time. You and him might have as many reasons to see each other as you do to not see each other. You never know; you might miss one opportunity and life will give you another opportunity at the time you were supposed to be with this person. However, everything happens for the best and for a reason

“There is always another time” in a way is a synonym of “monkey see, monkey do.”

12 Reasons for Women to See Men Another Time

1. If a man is not clear about whether he wants to see you or not and can’t choose between you and watching a game, boys night out, a poker game, visiting his mother, etc., then it’s not the right time yet.

2. If a man says “I’ll call you” and he actually means “anytime before I die”, let other women to see this man.  Remember, a call is an action, not a condition.

3. If a man wants you to be exclusive with him, but he is not sure if he is going to be exclusive with you, then perhaps you need to see him another time, unless you would like to join his harem. I hope you are aware that sleeping with a man in a way means sleeping with his women and their other men.

4. If a man is “busy” every weekend, and the only time he has is on weekdays, then you might need to see him another time…next year perhaps? Unless it’s casual sex or booty calls, dating a special person is about spending at least one of your weekend evenings together

5. If a man does not return your calls within one or two days, it’s better to see him another time.

6. If a man practices hibernation or disappearing acts (especially after hot sex), then you should definitely see him another time – when his hibernation is permanently over.

7. If a man does not acknowledge Valentine’s Day, Christmas, New Year’s Eve, and your birthday with flowers and gifts, then it’s better to meet another time and preferably with another man. You can let go of Halloween and the 4^th of July, but hello, Valentine’s Day is a must!

8. If you have too many questions about your man, but can’t even get some answers – there is always another time

9. If the man has a couple thousand Facebook “friends” who wear lingerie in their profile picture and a significant amount of them post on his wall about how delighted they would be to see him soon, perhaps you need to let them do it and…see man another time.

10. If a man thinks that a relationship equals having sex when he is available or has no idea what a relationship is and what it’s for, then you might need to see him another time.

11. If a man is on a date with you, but suddenly starts paying attention to another woman, it’s cool…but not with you…so you might need to see him another time.

12. IF A MAN HAS A DESIRE TO SEE YOU, HE’LL FIND LOTS OF OPPORTUNITIES; IF HE HAS NO DESIRE TO SEE YOU, HE’LL FIND TONS OF REASONS.   THEREFORE, IF HE HAS NO DESIRE TO SEE YOU, THEN YOU MIGHT NEED TO SEE HIM ANOTHER TIME!

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